I am living with a guy who is perfect for me i just moved in with him 3 months ago. What bothers me, is that a few days ago i found an e-mail for him from a Spanish Dating Site pictures of girls he requested in his profiles were sent to him, not to mention the ages were only 18 and 19's. Oh he is 48 and i'm 25. I am not sure what to think of him he's so nice to me treats me like a princess and i know he is serious with me. I am just bother by this especially since i know he once tried to date two girls who were both 18 years old ( not at the same time) and both time he told me "Oh they either didn't look eighteen or he didn't know she was 18" I don't know if i should be upset or confront him.
This is a very serious question for me, so i only need serious answer Please.
2006-10-20 07:59:11 · 10 answers · asked by LaoSy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a dog and now he wants a new bone to gnaw on, he has no business dating or living with someone young enough to be his daughter. He will be kicking you to the curb, but not till he has something else lined up.
2006-10-20 08:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by landersonjr1958 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for him. i wouldn't trust a guy so much older. Why haven't you two tied the knot? Did you think there might be a reason he isnt married yet? Some guys just dont want to marry so they can always have "fun" with girls. If you have already confronted him about it then i would take a break from him for a while and see what happens. Its hard to say cause i dont know how he treats you, but if he's serious with you he shouldn't be even thinking about those dating sites. Hello? Ur his girl.
2006-10-20 08:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by savanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. He seems like the type to go after young girls. And the age difference is huge for you two...
23 years apart, he's old enough to be your father! When you are 35, he's already 58!
You might find happiness in future with a man that's closer to your age. Don't be so sure about him being your 'perfect man'.
2006-10-20 08:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by vintageprincess72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used. I think that you should consider ending the relationship. The age gap really reflects on the guys need for young booty. Nothing good will come from this relationship. In the words of Dr. Laura you are "an unpaid whore" to him. I saw move out today.
2006-10-20 08:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately confront him. And yes you have every right to be upset. Why is he looking when he has you?? He keeps it up, I would consider dumping him, because I dont know If I could trust him.
2006-10-20 08:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him yes you should. relationships need to be open and nothing hidden if they are to be good. trust takes time to build but it could take one wrong act to tear it down in a second. you got to build trust here and it starts with dealing with this issue.
2006-10-20 08:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Batman has left the building 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm...... I guess I would suggest that you talk to your guy about this and see if his answer makes sense to you. I see warning lights and danger..... but I'm not in the relationship.
2006-10-20 08:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to confront him about this, maybe there is an innocent explanation for this
2006-10-20 08:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems he looks appear to be a womaniser. so if you can bear that go ahead; otherwise leave it.
ignore him and move away.
2006-10-20 08:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well telll him that it bothers u and that u want him all
to urself and for no one else.I guess he si interested in
young girls huh??
2006-10-20 08:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋