my friend is in a long distance relation since 3 yrs & it was going on too well for quit a long time, now she notice that her guy has changed a lot, when ever she calls he doesnt respond to her properly, he makes excuse like he is with frnd, traveling in the company cab...etc earlier he used to talk to her every time, no matter with whom he is. latter he does talk to her but she feel he gets irritated on small issues. she cant ask him any thing, he doesn't like it. ever day they have a fight, then he does try to call but again end up with the fight. she loves him a lot but she dont know what to do. dont know why he has changed so much. he too dont have any reason, he say now i am like this it self.he dont seem to have any other girl in his life. what do you guys think...what must be his problem that he dont share. i cant see my frnd who was once so bubbly... this way, she cry a lot &i am quit sure she may even end her life if this goes on, as i see she has lost all interest in life.
2006-10-20 07:55:57 · 6 answers · asked by riya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she got an answer from his reaction already. Tell her to move on. I used to cried a lot for months because of my boyfriend. But now ....when I look back I can see what kind of mistakes we made....he is not good enough compared to my present boyfriend. Please ask her to calm down, I know it is very difficult at the beginning) and I still believe in this saying " there are plenty of fishes at sea"
Please tell her ...not to let the emotional superior than herself...what she needs is just the self-control. She will pass all the difficulties later on. Good luck to her.
2006-10-20 08:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to find other intrests and get out there. Even just female friends. She needs to socialise more, get a good life, accept any invatation, and move away gently. Not being so dependant on him and also waiting til he inisiates contact will show if he's in it for the long term or not, plus I think this is what he has done, he has made a life without her. You need to help her move on and quick. Even a girly night in can help, something to take her mind off it. Good luck!
2006-10-20 15:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Your Friend is suffering from Commen Problam call NGAL means a new girl has arrived in his boyfriends'life.
Few commen symptoms Cheater girl or boy when they cheat are:
1.now cheater (boy/girl) is talking less
2.When u call he or says "I am busy call me after some time" or may be they say I'll call u but they never call.
3.u can found lots of changes in their life style their looks their thoughts and all those thing .
4.the cheater one lie alot
5.Now cheater always say or behave"I dont Care"just because a new girl or boy in life or he or she is looking for new one in life.
the Fact is Riya Your Friends Boyfriend is cheating her..and he is looking for another relationship or may be he is having another..
so tell her Leave the past and think about Present she cant force him to continue relationship.
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2006-10-20 15:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Visshal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be any number of reasons for his behavior. She has no way of knowing. My first thought may be that he's taking/using some form of drugs. Or at very least is not a very happy person.
Nor does he seem to have a strong interest/respect for her.
Please request your friend to seek professional help. For he is certainly NOT a person to cause another person to end one's life. Of course he doesnt have another girl in his life. No girl would tolerate his irritated/irrational behavior!
2006-10-20 15:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance very seldom works out
2006-10-20 14:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go and look for him and talk to him face to face.
2006-10-20 15:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋