i have identified myself as bisexual and i am 15 and my parents know about it and really dislike me for it. ive tried to get my mom to understand that no matter who you love you should be happy for and even though the bible says homosexuality is wrong, is it wrong to be bisexual? ive never had a girlfriend yet, but i am attracted to girls. so yes, i know i am sure of myself. but lets say i have a boyfriend, and i am secretly attracted toward another girl. is that wrong if i am engaging in heterosexual activity? i am so confused...
2006-10-20 07:40:49 · 22 answers · asked by emo girl 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am bisexual and have always been. Even as a young girl I had crushes. I had my first "act" when I was 16. I always knew I was bisexual. I am 26 now and have any many bisexual encounters. My mom knows about the firts time but I told her I was straight,not that she'd care but my dad has no idea. Its none of their busieness,however,always have safe sex,if you must at your young age.
2006-10-20 07:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, not your mom's, nor some ancient book's.
There's nothing wrong with being bisexual. If you're engaged in heterosexual activity with someone other than your spouse, you're already violating Biblical doctrines. Why then do you care what it has to say about homosexuality?
2006-10-20 14:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by lenny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having attractions to another girl is very different from having sex with them. You have been given this particular test. You even recognize it as such, even if you're not ready to admit it.
Attaining holiness is exercising restraint. You inclination toward other girls is something you need to control. Having the inclination and not acting on it is a far greater act of holiness than someone with no such inclination not engaging in homosexual activity.
Good luck with your struggle.
2006-10-20 14:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by mzJakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Corinthians 6:9 (New International Version)
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders
*shrug* how far it goes i dont know, but some say that its the act itself that is wrong, others say that thinking it is just as bad. but i think do what YOU think is right and stop worrying about what ever body else says. the bible was only written by MAN not by God. perhaps you should ask god what his views on it are... (man will only tell you their own definition of right and wrong)
2006-10-20 14:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to these fools. Listen to yourself...
Are you simply attracted to girls, but dont find yourself desiring physical/sexual interaction? In that case, youre not really Bi, youre just a female that can appreciate another females beauty. Im a very heterosexual man - but that doesnt mean that I cant say with certainty that I think Christian Bale is a hansome guy...that doesnt make me Bi or gay...
And if youre with a boyfriend and find yourself attracted to a women, let him know - he just might find that to be a turn on!
2006-10-20 14:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Infidelity alone is already a sin.
You should de-program and re-program your mind. You should delete this negative thought in your mind and let go. You should re-program yourself as to being a normal,healthy young man.
Your mind is like a computer, all you have to do is make necessary corrections within yourself. You are what you think. You have the inner power to change your life.
You should also pray to the Holy Spirit and ask for wisdom and righteousness, for if you have wisdom, you have it all.
2006-10-20 14:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ely C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well my religion tells that it is wrong , but i don't hate are criticize anybody for what they think is right because I'm not feeling are going through what they are .so i can only say follow whats in your heart . and as far as having a boyfriend you need to be honest with him . just love yourself and do what makes you happy because doing things to just make other people happy isn't right either .
2006-10-20 14:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
same sex relations is wrong as well as premarital sex. Why not back up and think if you are really attracted or is this just a phase because everyone else is trying it. If you are trying to live a Christian life you can't just do what you want, you need to think if it is something that will honor the Lord or hurt Him.
2006-10-20 14:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe that everyone has sinful thoughts and desires, its how you act/react to them that is the important factor.
I think women are beautiful, and if I didn't know god I could have ended up experimenting, and enjoying the act.
2006-10-20 14:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♫O Praise Him♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confused because you are young
you think you know your own mind but it will change over time
you may decide its what you want but don't label yourself just yet.
in the bible homosexuality is wrong as is bisexuality
the bible calls it un natural
make sure the choice you take is the right one.
2006-10-20 14:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight_dreaming 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋