well, i was raped last halloween (the man spent 6 months in jail) and i always felt like it never really affected me until i started dating. first of all, my parents have been divorced forever and my mom never got remarried so i really have no clue what a relationship with love is all about. when i get a bf, he just wants sex and i'm so insecure and i think he will leave me or think i'm boring or stupid if i don't give it to him so i usually just give them what they want... but now it's becoming really depressing because i know they don't love me. almost every bf i have had has cheated on me and eventually left me and broke my heart. i feel detatched now to guys and they all seem to be the same. what is a REAL relationship like? i really want to just be loved and not be used.
2006-10-20 06:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry to hear that you have gone through so many repressing events. I would suggest to maybe chnage your lifestyle, maybe try to dress differently, so join something , some classes that you really wanted to before. That way you may attract a different type of men, tha will love you and respect. Those men do exist, you just have to select the proper ones....... there are soooo many loosers and assholes out there, but there alot of good men too
2006-10-20 06:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none, relationship without sex will paintings for a lengthy time period yet after a lengthy time period both companions will initiate too seem someplace else to fulfill that organic human instinct. on the different hand sex without relationship receives old after a lengthy time period. one which is having consistent sex will attain a level in life that he/she might want to opt to be with someone who can convenience them and be there for them .
2016-12-05 01:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without the bread.
Seriously, I'm sorry and wish the best for you. Have you been to counseling of any kind? You need to talk this through with someone.
2006-10-20 06:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't give in, part of love is understanding. If they can't understand your position then **** them, not literally. Love is having compassion for somebody with out expecting sex in return. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love not a reward or conquest.
2006-10-20 06:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you should never drop your pants because of puppy love.Let your relationship build for a while,if they only want sex and your not into it ditch them because there is someone who is willing to wait for you.
2006-10-20 06:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real relationship is when he respects you no matter what, cares about you, treats you right, and most importantly understands you!!.. keep looking and you'll find the one for you. It may take sometime but at the end it'll be worth it.
2006-10-20 06:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by gabsters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋