if its harmless, but u do think so
2006-10-20 06:44:05 · 21 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on your relationship and the level of self confidence of your partner...someone who is insecure or easily becomes jealous, won't like appreciate you admiring someone else...
However, if y'all are secure in your relationship, then you each should be able to acknowledge when you see someone you find physically appealing...that doesn't mean you want to be with them, but are admiring the view...
2006-10-20 06:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends is this a movie star or the guy in the next cube over from you at work, if he precieves it as a threat it would be bad, but my wife tells me all the time how hot Aston Kutcher is, and I tell her how hot Kirsten Dunst is, no big deal. I think however, if I came home and said how hot the new co-worker at the office is or vice versa, someone would get jealous.
2006-10-20 13:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ross B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay - you gotta check out the November issue of Cosmopolitan! I got mine yesterday & that exact issue is addressed by a guy in this magazine. Guys don't care if you think another guy is hot - they don't wanna hear it, they tune you out,
they don't have a clue as to how to respond to that remark. They think if they agree with you, then someone might think they're gay. There ya have it - straight from Cosmo, the authority! lol
Oh yeah, this issue has the Bachelors in it - one from every state!!! All I can say is - WOW! Enjoy!!
2006-10-20 13:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my wife that I thought Sean Connery was hot. But in a guy way. I mean the dude is awesome. If I were her I would be so telling me that he was hot. But seriously, he is hot. I'm comfortable enough in my own manhood to say it. I wish I was Sean Connery.
2006-10-20 13:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by homerbethy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say HOT but I tell my husband if someone's attractive. Why not? Only immature people would get mad. Of course you'd find others goodlooking. Now if he told me someone had a nice *** or something I wouldn't like the lack of respect.
2006-10-20 13:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to give Ross B more than one thumbs up, but they don't allow that, so i put up this post instead.
oh... and to the ppl who say "guys do it, why can't we?" First, not all guys do it. Second, if your guy does it and it bothers you, then you have the wrong guy. Finally, if you both see no harm in it, then no harm no, foul.
2006-10-20 13:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by jack b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your relationship. my bf and i have been together for 4 and a half years. we tell each other if we think someone is hot. i know he's not going to do anything, its just a way of letting me see what he's into, and vice versa.
2006-10-20 13:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I only can if they are an actor or something then i still get bitched at. I dont see anything wrong with it... We talk about chicks and if we think theyre hot or not... so whats wrong with us saying that a guy is hot??? good question!!!!!
2006-10-20 13:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by young meat:) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolutely. I love my man and he loves me. There is no harm telling each other "hey check him/her out" I tell him Salma Hayak and Eva Menendez are hot, and of course he agrees
2006-10-20 13:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she doesn't get mad if the man compliments another lady. However, as hypocritical as it is, she will get mad, or insecure. Tell me I'm wrong.
2006-10-20 18:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋