ok! I am a guy who absolutely loves fat girls, but there is one thing I don't seem to get! why do you girls put on a dress then ask us guys if it makes you look fat or if your pants make your butt look big? then you say you want honesty but you really don't cus if we do think you look fat in it you get angry & hit us! What answer do you really want us to say? and what if you look fat & I like it better? how do you tell a girl she is fat a extremely beautiful without her getting mad at you?
2006-10-20 06:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Patrick K 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
women want you to tell them positive things about themselves to them so they can feel better (not me ofcourse i like the hard truth lol)
2006-10-20 06:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When a girl puts on some beautiful dress and asks a guy to tell her honestly if she looks fat, she means that she wants the guy to tell her "honestly" that she looks absolutely gorgeous. Even if there is no honesty in what you say, act like there is.
If you prefer fat women, never say the word fat. Girls know what they look like. Just say you think she's beautiful.
2006-10-20 06:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Apple Cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow lol that's cute...Personally I don't think I'm that fat, just normal I s'pose, but if I put something on and asked how it looked, if I looked fat than yes, I'd expect him/you to say how it looked, so I know if I should change or not. However, one person said to me once, "it's not the clothes that make you look fat, you make you look fat". At first I was offended, but then I thought about it, who cares if I look fat, it's all in my mind. Girls don't really care, and guys I'm sure won't care as much what you look like. Girls do this to themselves all the time, so they want others opinions, b/c sometimes the mirror isn't your best friend. If it honestly looks good, just say, "honey you're beautiful, it makes you look great". But if she does look fat, than why-are the clothes too tight or too big. If it looks too small or tight where it's making the skin bulge, than say something like, "I think it looks nice, but just a little tight on your hips". Something like that should work, even for a more hefty woman, but only if she knows she's not the skinniest person. If they're insecure, than you have to be reasuring.
2006-10-20 06:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by cjb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a larger rear end, not quiet Jennifer Lopez, but almost there!! I use to hate it until my boyfriend said that it was a little bigger than most but he loved it. Now I get compliments on it from my boyfriends and I have come to love my rear end, I realize that not all guys want a big booty girl, but some like it. I think that if you tell a girl what assets you like on her that helps her self esteem and she'll come to like those assests too. You don't have to say "you're fat and I like that" maybe say "I love your size and find it sexy I don't go for those really skinny girls." I also think its great that you love bigger girls it shows that you look at the person inside. Well the outside too if you like them big! Oh well its neat to find a guy that says that.
2006-10-20 08:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell a girl she looks fat! Never. Ever. I repeat: never! What you should tell her is that she looks beautiful, which is what you think, right? So say that. If you tell her she looks fat, but you like it, she will still think she looks fat and SHE wont like it. Girls dont just dress for their boyfriend, but also for themselves and for other people as well. I am heavier than i should be, my boyfriend for some reason thinks i'm hot, but i am still disgusted with myself when i think i look fat. so just use the word beautiful or the word hot. besides when we ask that, we are fishing for compliments, not looking for the truth. if we wanted that, wed ask our girlfriends!
2006-10-20 16:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by krisr22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i'm not fat. yet i do ask that question to my bf.. and wen he says my butt does look big i hit him..
girls are confusing. plain and simple. They are always wanting to be pleased yet its never in the right way.. (welll not NEVer but most times..)
If she's fat.. and you think she's beautiful.. don't tell her she's fat.. tell her that she IS beautiful.. b/ c she is. Tell her you love the way she is. Just be honest.. even if she gets mad.. she'll love the honesty.
2006-10-20 06:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by CuKoconut07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman isn't really asking if they look fat, what they are trying to say is does this outfit look nice on me. Just think of it that way next time. I don't think we care if we have a big butt- we prefer it- we just want the outfit to fit right.
2006-10-20 06:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think she is beautiful then tell her.........if she asks you if she looks fat say no dollface, you look beautiful no matter what you wear yor not lying because you really do
and guys if a girl is ugly or fat and you dont like what shes wearing go find a different girl cause bodacious girls rock!
2006-10-20 06:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girls and women are caught up with the image of all the fashion models. They are all extremely thin. Clothes on TV, magazines, catalogs...store mannequins are all for very skinny women. Styles are for slender women.
Yes, there are larger sizes...but the fashion market worldwide has flooded our senses with skinny...so if we are not skinny, then we do not fit into the accepted category. We are brainwashed.
2006-10-20 06:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by ShaamAnsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's no longer fat, notwithstanding it feels like his self-worth is shot and we as females can %. up on that and it is a turn off. perhaps the females he likes are not solid for him besides. i have went out with more advantageous adult males. it doesn't count number see you later as they are an outstanding man or woman.
2016-12-05 01:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can NEVER say that a woman has a fat butt. To her or to anybody else. It could get you killed.
2006-10-20 06:26:48 · answer #11 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋