2006-10-20 06:18:23 · 14 answers · asked by CGK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are two factors that brings about change to people: External and Internal. The external can be anything like a thing, an ambition, a relationship, a person, etc. The internal is the person himself/herself. The external can only do so much. The will to change has to come from the internal. Once a decision has been made by that person, the action to really change will follow.
2006-10-20 11:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish That I could. If I could then that would mean I have no enemies and that i always get my way. I already get my way allot.
But I still wish I could change people. I ask for it all the time. It is not a quick thing by any means. If you succeed, you will be allot older when you do and it wont matter anymore. Its like wishing for the stars to be closer to the earth so we can see them better. If If It happens it will only take forever in light years, and then will we really appreciate them more, possibly not. Maybe that's a bad analogy. You have to realize the good in people first. then if they really have some huge flaws, you have to change to live with them ( and by that I mean deal with it) or go some where else and get away from their unattractive personality. Beauty is in the beholder. You cant make them get a face lift though.
2006-10-20 06:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, people can only change themselves. If you are with someone you shouldn't want to change them anyway, either be with them for who they are or leave them.
2006-10-20 07:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can "change" someone. However, I do think that you can "mold" someone.
Do not try to change someone for your benefit either.
2006-10-20 06:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if they are in a bad situation i can talk to them, be there for them, give them advice on how to better it so its a more positive experience for them. but i would never try to change someone. thats not my place or my responsibility
2006-10-20 06:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think that you can change a person they will change on their own if they choose to, but don't expect it of them.
2006-10-20 06:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but only if they are willing or want to be changed, you can't force someone to change.
2006-10-20 06:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't my ego is so big to think I can "change" someone. I'm not God.
2006-10-20 06:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you cant change no one if you don't like them the way they are then don't get involved.
2006-10-20 06:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.. If they are good you can always drag them to bar, party, movies, problems and so on..
NO.. if they are bad .. there are no chances..
YES.. if they are so ... so then some tricks might work.
The best way to get around this is to TRY and TRY and TRY until you are not tired. If you get success my answer is YES.!!
2006-10-20 07:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Desi Prem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋