I love both of them very much. Both are sucessful. Both would care and cherish me. How do you choose? I need help.
2006-10-20 06:17:07 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why get married...
Fool around with both
2006-10-20 06:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
How does one get in a position where two men love her so deeply they have both asked for her hand in marriage? Where you dating both? Having sex with both? Going through the trials of courtship with both? Falling in love with both? Sharing the most intimate of you with two men? If either of these relationships were particularly serious, you would have chosen to be with one a long time ago. If you are being "forced" to choose then you don't really want to marry either of these poor deluded men. You can do whatever you want. Nice to see you made a point about being in your forties and not a teenager. Funnily though, it seems to me your chronological age does not represent your actual age. You are acting like a teenager. Get over yourself. I'm 25.
2016-03-18 22:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly marriage is about two ppl who not only love each other but also care for and respect each other.think of who makes you feel the best.choos e the one who understands you the most.actually i dont think you will be able to ever give a 100%to any of the relationship you choose.its a really tough decision and i think you should be honest to both of them.i think go for neither as you wont be able to be a 100%to either one.still talk to them and tell them about your problem.whichever one you choose remember that there should be absolutely no doubt.you must be fair and fully faithful to the one you choose.dont let the thought what if i had said yes to the other one cross your mind.this is life remember.good luck
2006-10-20 06:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear..First try to judge them. Find out who is more sincere then the other. Cuz if you lose the one who is made just for you then surely you will wrap yourself in a big trouble. You hav to take a wise decision & marry a man who matches your personality and can be with you the whole life through.
But if it's fun what you are looking for....then.....Keep looking.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-20 06:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shaani SK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, congrats on having 2 men love you enough to be asked to married to them. I think it is a matter of the heart. I know you say you love them both very much, but who can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with? Does either of them have anything about them, ie. a habit or quwerk, that you wouldnt be able to live with forever?
2006-10-20 06:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by collegechickbre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good one! I have the SAME QUESTION!!!!
Isn't that crazy????
I gave advice the other day to put the names in a hat. I called the doctor and told him that I pulled his name out of the hat and he said," I should be in Vegas because I am feeling LUCKY!"
I am in no hurry though. I have until February to make a serious choice.
Good advice would be to write all of the good qualities down, then the bad. Then for the other sweet guy. With it written down you would have a better understanding of who the right one is.
It is possible to be inlove with two people! Good luck!
2006-10-20 06:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ohmyheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would keep your distance from both of them and concentrate on your feelings. You may realize that you don't want either one or it may be too hard to choose. Personally, that's what I would do.
2006-10-20 06:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You're not ready for marriage and you should turn both down. Once you find a guy that you love and you don't want to be with anyone else for the rest of your life, then you're ready.
2006-10-20 06:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very lucky woman.
I'd sit down and write a PRO'S and CON'S list on both of them.
Write down every detail about each and decide from there.
2006-10-20 06:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them or take a week long vacation and dont be in touch with either of them. Ask yourself who you are missing more and he is your man :)
I see from your 'About Me' that you have 2 kids. Well, you could ask your kids who they like more. Kids are quite intuitive and are usually right.
2006-10-20 06:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can nt love 2 people at the same time.I am sure you have fun wth one of them & you love other one because u thnk he is nice to you & u can see future wth him but you can't choose because one is making you happy laugh & other makes you fell secure... And Its nt easy to find a good man so pick the one who cares about you never hurt you... And If you can nt choose it means you are nt ready to get married..Marriage is very serious so thnk about it b4 you do somethng that serious. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-20 06:23:57 · answer #11 · answered by ebuncan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋