Is he a womaniser?

Question

This guy dated several women over a period of 7 years. But he has a principle to "enjoy and concentrate only on one woman at any time and not leave her until you checked her out for a long term relationship." He never cheated on any woman he dated and usually the relationship lasted 1 to 2 years with each one. But some people categorized him as a "womaniser" at work and it eventually resulted in getting fired from job.

Is that fair? Is he really a "womaniser" when he never cheated on his spouse or girl and never had sex with 2 or more women at the same time?

Answer 1

Mr. Guy....you are trying so hard to justify your behavior and your poor behavior at work that this thinly disguised tale of tragedy I just can't buy. You have looked for 7 years and can't find a good woman to commit to? Something wrong with you, honey. Take a good look at yourself and stop pinning the blame on others. Why don't you do yourself a favor and take a breather? Godloveya.

Answer 2

whoo there. He got fired for being a "womaniser"? naw, there's something more. He was either having some type of relationship with a collegue, or harassment or something if it was related in any way to women.

I think a womaniser is someone who leads woman on and plays them. (And girls can be guilty of the same thing....) You can date two girls at once, if you are honest and up front....what he was doing seems like what everyone else is doing? I dont get it

Answer 3

I don't think it's fair he lost his job, but if he's having sex with more than 1 person, he's not concentrating on 1 woman, checking her out, for a long term relationship either. He's just fooling himself.

(The end comment confuses me a little.)

Answer 4

He's what's known as a serial monogamist--one who spends as little time as possible being single, moving from the end of one relationship to the beginning of a new relationship as quickly as possible. The defining aspect of serial monogamy is the desire and ability to enter new relationships very quickly, thus abbreviating any period of single life during which the serial monogamist may begin to ask questions of an existential nature.

Basically, a dysfunctional jerk.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like he is just cautious and wants to make sure he has the right one before he makes his final decision. As for his job, he must have turned down his boss if she is female or some woman in the office who had influence. But it sounds like he is doing fine

Answer 6

Well, it sounds like he's looking for the right woman. He seems dedicated a loyal to each woman and treats each one as an individual. I don't think he's a womanizer.

Answer 7

He isn't a womanizer if he is as honest as you say. Afraid of commitmant maybe. This should not be a reason for him to have lost his job. Is there something you don't know about or not telling us? Did he diddle the boss or something?

Answer 8

Not a womanizer. Perhaps he never cheats, but may be extremely flirtatious and makes women uncomfortable?

Answer 9

i don't know if you would call that a womanizer. but it is not right if he is going to be with one lady then stay with one not 2. to me a womanizer is someone that want to control a woman. not let her have a thought of her own. one that wants to run everything in a woman's life. that is a womanizer to me.

Answer 10

Maybe the office drama got to be too much and they fired him, or maybe the boss didn't like him, or maybe thats not actually why he got fired thats just what he told people. Either way who cares?