I really want to date a young women because they are youthfull and will make me feel young. The only thing is how do I talk to her when we have such a big age difference.
2006-10-20 06:10:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is looking for mature conversation or she wouldn't be with you unless your a stud lol. Just be yourself and share her ideas and that is what they are looking for. But don't treat them like a little kid because they think they are all grown up :)
2006-10-20 06:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 35 yr old man wanting to date a 20 yr old "girl" has a lack of maturity and is thinking below his belt. If I saw a man 35 dating a 20 year old, I would think HE was pathetic and I would think SHE was only in it for what she could get out of him......aka: sugar Daddy.
You may have a great time in the bedroom, but realize that you are losing a lot of respect of the other people around you....except for your friends who are probably also immature.
I remember what I was like at age 20, and although I did have a great body......I knew nothing about the world and didn't have a clear understanding of the things that are truly important in life.
By the way, 35 isn't old. 35 is a wonderful age. Sounds like you have some issues with self confidence and contentment with your life if you think having a fling with a 20 year old will solve your quest for youth.
You were 20 once. Now, you're not. Get over it and grow up!
2006-10-20 13:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Sorry, but that is too big of an age difference. Think about it, you have grown and matured, hopefully. This girl can't even drink. What could you possibly have to talk about? You need to go with someone much older than that. Why do you need to feel young? You aren't young. You should want to be with someone who gets your jokes, when you talk about the 80's not someone born in the 80's.
2006-10-20 13:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by nursejuley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly, 20 is too young for a guy your age. She hasn't had enough life experience yet. There are youthful women around your own age. For your midlife crisis, try something else to make you feel young like a face lift, ball lift etc.
2006-10-20 13:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do not suggest it. I think that someone who is that different in age is a perv. So if you want to be classified as one, go ahead, but I would not even consider that. I am only 23, and I would not even date an 18 year old. Age difference is too much.
2006-10-20 13:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk to her like an adult, as she is an adult. there are many 20-somethings out there who are actually independent and more mature than we believe them to be. just find some common ground... like what brings you within the vicinity of her in the first place? a club? work? start with that.. see how it goes. don't date someone purely for their youth, either. that's a bad way to go.
2006-10-20 13:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel- physically. The problem is, they are always going to be able to get more guys, and their brain isn't developed like yours, so for her to dump you- it's nothing, ya know?
It's true, they are not jaded, they are fun, willing to try new things. I'm just like you- but I think we'd both be better off with someone who's 27- YOU be the lively one, see if its contagious!
Another thing is, you'll always be explaining to them the things you experienced when you were 15, and she wasn't even around. It gets annoying.
2006-10-20 13:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly me! I thought a person was supposed to date someone because they liked their personality, sense of humor, etc., not as an OTC remedy for whatever ails them.
My advice? Get yourself a brand new blow up doll. With your idea of a relationship, you won't know the difference.
2006-10-20 13:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind that you are from different generations. She may be youthful, but there's a huge maturity factor. Sounds like you are having a midlife crisis.....
2006-10-20 13:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by draws_with_crayons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about what she is interested in. if you don't understand it ask her and she will educate you.
problem with young women is that they have no direction. you will feel more like a babysitter who is paying for everything. it really isn't all it's cracked up to be.
2006-10-20 13:14:33 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋