ok so i will tell from the beginning. my friend i have known for eleven years has crossed the line. i introduced her my boy friends best friend his best friend absolutely loved her and started to date her. well it all started to get bad after that. all her probs she had with this boy where blamed all on me. i confronted her about this but all she did was call me bad names and irrationally blame me for something i didnt do. i mean i didnt even know this kids number. she thought i was telling his mom that they had plans to move down south and get married. what the hell does that matter!? and they were only going out for 8 months! she thinks i told his b/c i get my hair cut by her. this girl is so stupid. well they broke up after 10 months and now she is my BEST FRIEND! we went to a college i really like and now she is set to go there with me. she wants to room with me also. I am going to flip the hell out....i want rid of this girl. i dont trust her. please help me get rid of this girl!!
2006-10-20 05:56:53 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole K 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
once trust is gone, there is nothing can be done to repair that bridge, i would try to let her down gentle, caues she probably do somethin rash, maybe pawn her off on some other poor soul.
2006-10-23 08:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by And i heard as it were a thunder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you want to optimize the amoutn of friedns you will make. If you each have your own roomie - that's 2 friends from the start. I went away to college and roomed with someone who was a good friend of mine and it nearly destroyed our friendship. Things are ok now, but it would have never lasted had we went another semester together.
Try being honest, too. Tell her your still salty about all the bull that went on between the two of you in the past and you don't think moving intogether is a great way to repair a friendship. If she flips out and takes it the wrong way then the problem is still solved :0)
2006-10-20 06:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with tiara m .. makethis girls life hell spred some roomers about her or somthing like that she will end up leaving in the end and out of your head for good....OR you could just tell her the truth about how you feel but the other way sounds more fun
2006-10-20 06:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by stuckbetweenlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not find the help you are needing here. Talk to someone you trust about this. It could be your parents or another relative or a minister or a teacher but don't look for help here
2006-10-20 06:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by barrettins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her what you wrote. If you do not want this person around you tell them, they can not read your mind. Maybe she thinks that the way she acts is normal and you agree with her. The only way she will find out that you think otherwise is if you tell her.
2006-10-20 06:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by blu_drgn25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the roomate from hell!!!Throw things in her side. Get stoned and throw up on her.Be a total *****!Do everything to make her life hell
2006-10-20 06:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tiara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok basically i hav the same problem n i've realisedu HAVE to be brutual. i tried tellin her, then ignored her then jst put up with it nothing works until now. what i've done is spoken 2 my other friends found out they agreed with me, then jst simply blank the girl you basically have to freeze her out force her to notice you don't want to be her friend its the only way- unless u want to marry her and end up spending the rest of your life with her at your side.
2006-10-20 06:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by thorpehannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have just got to be upfront tell her you dont want to do these things with her any more, then if this doesnt work just avoid her and arrange your life so that she isnt a part if it, this may not be much help its the best i could do tho
2006-10-20 06:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by richeboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the same thing you told us
2006-10-20 06:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel
2006-10-20 06:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋