2006-10-20 05:32:20 · 15 answers · asked by cwakridge_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will tell you that there is no way you can "make" her be more than friends. However, when I met my husband, I was not interested in him in any way except as friends. The longer we were friends, the better I got to know him, and realized how great he really is. We got married when I was 18 years old, and am still married to him 27 years later. My advice is to maintain the friendship, and maybe it will grow into more than just friends. If not, you still have a good friend with her.
2006-10-20 05:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her what she wants. All women want the same thing. A strong man who loves them. Strong men don't make excuses for what they want or hide the way they feel. Tell her you are attracted to her and have no interest in "being friends".
Other than being direct and upfront with things and not caring what anyone else thinks about it, strong men are calm, cool and collected, especially when things are bad. They don't have silly phobias or engage in bad habits. They don't accept bad behavior from themselves or others. And they are used to effecting the world around them, not the other way around. Show these qualities to her and she will want you as a man.
Love means you truly care about her. You are interested in her as a person and want to create a long term to permanent bond with her. She isn't a piece of as s but rather, an important part of your life. She doesn't have to worry that one day, you will abandon her and your children. Show this quality to her and she will stay with you forever.
2006-10-20 05:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she don't already know that you are feeling her, let her know. that may be whats holding her back. do sweet things for her. (that normally only a boyfriend would do) if you are nervous about letting her know, send her a rose & a pretty card telling her how you feel about her & ask her to go on a date w/ you (YOU PAY!) and let her know in the card that if she isn't ready or isn't sure, that it's ok & that it's not gonna change your friendship. understand that some people are better off as friends.(i know!!!) be sure that this is what you wanna do, because if you guys become bf & gf & break up, chances are that you won't stay close friends...believe me!
2006-10-20 05:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a female want what you want. You can however just point blank ask her how she feels about you and you reveal your feelings for her. Respect her answer; if she doesn't feel the same way about you, don't push it. You're better off finding someone who does find you attractive and love you.
2006-10-20 05:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's either there or it's not... if it is there, then you really don't have to try to make things happen... if it is not there then there is nothing you can do to change that.. Oh yeah.. I'm talking about Chemistry.. if you didn't already figure that out..
2006-10-20 05:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfeyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just talk to the ladies a lot and I end up with a girlfriend.
2006-10-20 05:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Diaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't GET her to want to be more than friends, that's just something only she can do. You just have to wait around for it.
2006-10-20 05:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a rose, works like a charm.
2006-10-20 05:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
roll up a rose and aim it for the wet spot.
2006-10-20 05:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get to know her better before making any sudden movements
2006-10-20 05:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lilnickygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋