She accuses me of being clingy and insecure because when i call or e mail she does not respond and i take it as she is not interested. Is this a bad sign??
2006-10-20 05:30:05 · 14 answers · asked by wanttolpve 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says she likes me and we have another date this weekend
2006-10-20 05:37:23 · update #1
Same situation right now You feel that she likes you but when you call you feel like your bothering them. What I did was stop calling period and let them do all the calling and if they don't call you have the answer to you question forget about her and move on.
2006-10-20 05:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think she is interested. Because when a girl really likes a guy she will sit by the phone and wait, or wait for that e-mail to come. Find someone else who will appreciate you more. And never be clingy, women don't like that, it creeps them out actually.
2006-10-20 12:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women have a hard time communicating to men there not into them. They are trying to be nice and it comes off wrong because the guys see the being nice as they like them. Strange but true. If you don't understand women by now you've got a long road ahead of you.
2006-10-20 12:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by TRIX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just 2 weeks & she's already looking on the negative side... it's not a good sign.
She doesn't even know you enough to understand you, yet she judges you as clingy & insecure.
She won't understand/get to know you, if she doesn't take time or make an effort... sounds like she's not interested enough.
2006-10-20 12:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told-she's keeping her options open. She isn't very interested in you but she hasn't met anyone "better" yet. So she's keeping you as a backup.
If you want to play second string-put up with it. She may see when in a crunch.
If you want a real relationship with someone who actually likes you and wants to spend time with you. Move on. There's someone better out there for you too.
2006-10-20 12:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by tallmochagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's beyond a bad sign. There's nothing there. Move on.
2006-10-20 12:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you probably need to back off... You can not automatically assume that she's not interested because she does not email you back instantly. However, if she was really interested you wouldn't be having any doubts...
2006-10-20 12:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by victer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ease up, some people are just not attached to their computer and like to think about things before they respond...you might be repulsing her by getting upset by her no response...
2006-10-20 12:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a bad sign, you can do better...move on!
2006-10-20 12:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, move on. She is not into you.
2006-10-20 12:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋