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Anal sex is the ultimate taboo, right ( at least for the most part pertaining to heteral sexual men and women). Of all the women I've spoken to about it, only a few have tried it, many say they never will, and many say they wouldn't even consider it unless they were with the person they were going to be with for the rest of their lives. I'm guessing this makes anal sex the ultimate goal to be coveted my many men seeking it. So here is my question. If the majority women only wanted to have anal sex, and were saving vaginal for that special someone, would vaginal sex be the ultimate goal, and upon achieving it, would it be more pleasurable, then it would if it were still the everyday thing? And if anal sex were the everyday thing, would that make it boring?

2006-10-20 05:25:12 · 12 answers · asked by three6ty 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

In my case, I get oral whenever I want, and therefore only look forward to it when I'm to tired to do anywork (lmao) Thats why I didn't include it. Besides its so easy. For both vaginal and anal she's got to warm up and get turned on. And they are both more fun than oral because you can make up crazy positions to do them. This question is just about vaginal and anal.

2006-10-20 05:59:13 · update #1

12 answers

i suppose that if anal sex were more common and practiced more often then that would take away from some of the pleasure. it would also make vaginal sex more pleasurable because its not something often done. a lot of it is mental.

2006-10-20 05:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by viper8641 3 · 1 0

There are diferent considerations to be made here but - in general - anal sex is related to conquest and dominations by the man and giving (pleasure)/submition by the woman. Because it is painfull most of the pleasure of the passive side is in the pleasure of the active one. Part of the pleasure of the active side is the acceptation of the pain by the passive one to his own pleasure. Once a woman decide to "give" this pleasure - mainly as a concession - it is realy a gift and the man must know she really loves or consider him very much. Consider also anal sex is - and always was - condemned by almost all religions (see the Bible city of Sodoma from where we have the term "sodomy" = anal sex!). So the practice has deep and strong archetypical taboo roots. There are always a very special experience of something "marginal" and prohibited for both participants. Anal sex is diferent from anyone else for both. Anus has diferent type of muscles so the "grip" sensation is very partucular. It must be tried but always with patience precautions and care.

2006-10-20 05:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Guru 3 · 0 0

maybe sex isnt the ultimate goal. maybe sex is something to be enjoyed by two loving and consenting adults.

look at it this way.

lets just SAY you're going to find ONE woman who you'll spend the rest of your life with.

ONE.

ok, figure 50 or 60 years with this woman.

estimate how much time you'll be having sex.

twice a week?
more?
5 times a week.

how long each time?
1 hour?
2 minutes?
4 hours? (get viagra or something)
lets just estimate an hour and a half.

thats 7.5 hours per week.
24X7=168 hours in a week
56 hours spent sleeping
56 hours spent working
168 - 112 = 56 hours left
56 - 7.5 = 49.5 left after all of the above including sex.

i think you're going to spend more time talking with your spouse, than having sex.

so maybe you should be a little more interested in what kind of person she is,
politics. religeon, hobbies, interests, goals, hopes. dreams etc.

think about it a moment.

2006-10-20 05:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 2 0

You are over thinking this one, darlin'. It is not that complicated. You should try having someone poke a couple well lubricated fingers in there (there are toys, too) and see what it feels like...then determine if you would want it in there all the time. My bf appreciates this and knows sometimes it is pleasurable for me and sometimes it is not...when it is hot it is hot, when it is not it is not. Honest, try it yourself and develop a knowledgeable opinion.

2006-10-20 05:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0 0

Maybe oral sex is the ultimate goal?

2006-10-20 05:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well i cant really say that im an adult cause in not. im just 16 but from what ive done i like it both ways. my boyfriend and i have done it multiple times and we enjoy it dearly. for me its not boring at all because he makes it fun. i guess its all how yoiu make it. and for your question on "if anal sex were the everyday thing, would that make it boring?" No because my n my guy make it everyday and for us its not boring

2006-10-20 05:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I think oral is the ultimate pleasure.

2006-10-20 05:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0 0

I am not sure, I get all three holes from my lady! I reckon I am a lucky man!

2006-10-20 05:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0 0

Man always want to try what is not avaialble....simple applies even for this

2006-10-20 05:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Vijay God Loves U 4 · 0 0

I think we should roleplay, you seem like someone who would be good at that. email me at its_just_me_and_my_man@yahoo.com, i don't really have a man, but you can be that man.

2006-10-20 05:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Babygirl10' 1 · 0 1

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