ok me and my gf are in love but all we do is fight im misserable butr i love her i don't know what to do can anyone help me?
2006-10-20 05:09:33 · 10 answers · asked by george s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow thats hard. Really. It depends on what the arguements are based on...and really why you two are still having them. Can neither one of you compromise? If not...why don't you (or her) feel you can? Neither one of you should feel you can't really be who you are with eachother but you should be able to come to an understanding over your aguements if you two really love eachother and be able to move on.
2006-10-20 05:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by gdesigner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you both have a chat and agree to not fight? Sometimes, changing the tone and wording of things makes all the difference. Think about your responses before saying them. Also, pick your fights. In that I mean, only fight about things that are worth it (not the color of a wall etc.) My husband and I used to fight all the time and finally after 20 years realized lifes too short. What can I say, we're sloooow learners :-)
2006-10-20 05:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think you love her, but if you fight all the time then you do not. If you loved her you would back off from confrontation and arguments.
If you want to keep her, instead of arguing, keep your cool and instead of fighting back, ask questions and make suggestions such as "why do you have a problem with me doing X, and what can I do to make you happier" etc.
If that fails then you really are not compatible!
2006-10-20 05:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal..fighting/quarelling improves the relationship..but as a guy, u should give her a chance, tolerance is also important..just be patient..what i always do when my gf is mad/angry is be quiet,listen to her n then kiss her..after that i see a big smile on her face :)
2006-10-20 05:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk and tell her all of your concerns and have her tell you all of hers... Both of you need to listen to one another... If you can fix each others concerns or come to an agreement, then do it and carry on, if not, move on your seperate ways...
2006-10-20 05:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dani_n_keem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love there should be fight. fight increases the love. so fight more and love more.
2006-10-20 05:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by murtuza a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and than maybe take a break and date around then talk again and see what she thinks
2006-10-20 05:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with her. if nothing changes, and you still feel miserable... you know what to do.
2006-10-20 05:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can help you, email me (its_just_me_and_my_man@yahoo.com), you can talk to someone who knows what your going through
2006-10-20 05:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl10' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she love u?
2006-10-20 05:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋