2006-10-20 04:25:40 · 15 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i actually dont on a mental+sexual level.infact the most dull sex i ever experianced was when a was married
2006-10-20 04:29:48 · update #1
Sometimes I think that marriage and all that same partner for life stuff is just a bunch of boring religious rules created to stop people going around and shagging everybody whenever they feel like it.
2006-10-20 04:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Meant' implies that someone somewhere is supplying us with rules by which we are supposed to behave.
However, it is almost certainly better if you have the same partner for life - provided you are both equally happy with the relationship. Does anyone honestly think that children and families are happier when relationships break up ? Only if those relationships aren't healthy.
As for the dull sex when you were married - that says far more about you than anything or anyone else. You evidently lacked the imagination to change it and lack the courtesy to treat such issues with the discretion they deserve.
2006-10-20 11:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that we are probably meant to spend our lives with one person. Unfortunately the male need to procreate with all females of the species has changed the original plan. Years ago men thought nothing of having 100's of wives, we as woman excepted this because we thought we had no choice, now woman are tired of being treated like property.So even though origally we were meant to be with one person, woman dont HAVE to settle for the one that isnt right for us. Even though most woman(Or man for that matter) would prefer to be with 1 partner for the rest of their lives the likely hood of this happening is becoming slimmer. We live in a society that wants everything easy and disposable. Our marriages and relationships have become the same way. If we are not happy we can now get a divorce on our own, no lawyer needed. Quick and disposable marriages they seem to be the latest thing. We all have a soul mate that we are meant to be with forever....but in our haste do we dispose of them when we should have held on to the one person that we were meant to spend the rest of our lives with?
2006-10-20 11:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont because i think the whole idea about having a partner is that you get to know them so if u have the same partner for the rest of your life i dont think you get to know more people the right way but if your already married and u love this person and he loves you then i dont think you should follow my edvise just keep it going the way it is and if your not i think you should keep on finding until you find the right guy that has everything you want but dont be too picky because then youll never find him and if u have a boyfriend and theres nothin wrong with him dont break up with him if u really like him
good luck in life
2006-10-20 11:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is just one person out there who we are able to be compatible with. At this point in my life, though, I am with a man I love and care for deeply and I am simply not attracted physically or emotionally to anyone else. I hope it is until I die.
2006-10-20 11:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even believe that we're all meant to have a partner, period. Some of us, like me, were born to be steadfastly single.
2006-10-20 12:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have found someone that you want to spend the rest of your life, otherwise no!
2006-10-20 11:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i believe that i have met my life partner to whom i am living with right now and very happy with
2006-10-20 12:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're looking for out of life.
2006-10-20 11:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,ve asked myself the same thing
and the answer is no
untill you find the one for you,then it,s yes
confused?
never stop looking
2006-10-20 12:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋