I am totally straight and yet lesbians are approaching me. I generally believe live and let live so i simply tell them that i am staight and that is that. But im wondering am i doing something that lesbians see as a sign that someone is homosexual.
2006-10-20 04:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same as a heterosexual. You hit on people with the hope that you'll score with someone. Like fishing...once in a while you'll cast and catch a fish..okay, maybe a poor analogy but hopefully you get the point...
2006-10-20 04:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, that was quite the story. She is your personal trainer sounds hot..ok let me give you my advice..I'm still pretty young, so i don't know everything there is to know about lesbian dating, but it sounds like she could be interested in you or she could be interested in playing with your emotions you know a little ego boost. She could truly be interested but don't know how you will respond so she isn't trying to put her self out there...Cause i mean the stage of playing games should be done with, but then again she is a personal trainer and she is into image, so her knowing that you like her could just be an ego boost..I suggest for now just to play it safe..let her make the first move...and if she is truly interested she will come around...
2016-05-22 05:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some look for manleyness in a female some look to just prey on attractive ladies,it depends also if there is alcohol involed.Just don't be to flirty like and if one starts coming on to you say,wow that guy is hot,isn't he? Even if you don't think he is she will get the picture that you're straight.
2006-10-20 04:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced something similar to what you describe. I think it is simply that you are open minded and non-judgmental. They are attracted to you because you are kind and not critical and probably because you are pretty and sexy. Just like what guys would see in you.
2006-10-20 04:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know either but years ago when i used to bartend i was a lesbian magnet. oh yeah, and couples! couples used to hit on me, too. oh yeah, and men, men used to hit on me, alot.
but then who doesn't hit on the bartender when no one else will talk to them?
you are proably just very attractive and since everyone thinks they are gay or bi they think they can bed anyone they see.
2006-10-20 04:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it, They are just attracted to beautiful sexy women just like men are. your probably very attractive and they can see that, so they ask. Doesn't hurt to ask right? Just hurts to get the answer sometimes. lol Good luck hun, i wouldn't worry. Your handling it properly.
2006-10-20 04:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you need to ask this in the gay lesbian part sweetheart. I think they just go with there gut
2006-10-20 04:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They give them the finger first
2006-10-20 04:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe stop grooming your eyebrows in public with your tongue?
2006-10-20 04:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u wear doctor martin boots
2006-10-20 04:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋