I'm dating a man who is 35yrs. old for the past 3 months and we have been intimate but only a few times... i wonder if his age is the problem? Everything else is great, we enjoy each others company, so much we sleep over each other's home to spend time.
2006-10-20 04:06:43 · 20 answers · asked by sallySC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's impossible to answer. My husband is 31 (realizing it's 4 yrs younger) But he would do it every day 5 times a day if he could. It has more to do with the person than it does their age.
2006-10-20 04:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People seem to relate age to things like this but the truth is that a 35yr old can have a higher drive than a 25yr old if he is more physically fit. Its all in the health and fitness.
2006-10-20 04:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex drive is the same, but there are a number of other stresses that a 35 year old man has that a 25 year old does not. In other words, most 25 year olds rent, while the 35 year old owns a home that probably has a significant mortgage. A 25 year old may have a job with no stress, while a 35 year old may have a tremendous amount of responsibility.
If you are able to de-stress your 35 year old BF, I'm sure you will find him with not only the same sex drive, but also with a greater desire to please you also.
2006-10-20 04:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 yr olds have an extremely high libido....to where a man that is 35 may have certain things that are happening in his life right now. That may make sex take a back burner. as men age their libido decreases. Its not that he doesn't want to, maybe he can not shut down the days activities to concentrate on sex. take from someone who is married to a man 10 years older than me. Sex is the one thought that is not playing first in his mind. I know that he has a hard time shutting down work when he is home with me. So nothing to take seriously and it is not you. Try to make him forget the day, surprise him by making a date to take him out somewhere special.
2006-10-20 04:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The drive remains the same. The ability to perform is what changes. Shouldn't change that much though, hell I'm 45 and still get busy every chance I get. Something else could be wrong like stress on the job, guilt, or nervous about how well he performed the last time. Sometime we need our Egos stroked.
2006-10-20 04:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you are not the same age? You are 25?
I personally don't think the drive changes much...I think it has more to do with conscience.
Most (most) men at 25 have less emotional attachment to everything. They don't think so much about what they are doing or why. They just do it.
Men at 35 are much more compassionate, conscientious, considerate and take many factors to heart when doing anything. They don't just "do" it anymore. The experiences they have had through their lives make them this way.
If you want intimacy more often, let him know. Maybe he is trying to be considerate to you. One of the benefits of maturity. ;)
2006-10-20 04:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the sex drive of a 25 yr old to be the same as a 35 yr old man. They both want to do it pretty much every day.
2006-10-20 04:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 34 and it is lower than it was when I was 25, but myself I still want sex several times a week, not a few times in a few months.
Maybe he just has a low sex drive or he thinks you don't like sex.
If he is sensitive and had sex with you and felt you didn't enjoy it, maybe he is hesitant to do it again.
Give him some encouragement, maybe a little push is all he needs.
2006-10-20 04:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be a lot of difference in their sex drive. Most men betoween 25 and 35 are not much different in their sex drives. Could be there is something physical that he needs to have checked out...But I wouldn't worry about it too much...If he is not satisfying you then get yourself off to enjoy an orgasm....Sounds like you have a pretty good relationship.
2006-10-20 04:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moderate. This will also depend on his health, fitness level, diet and lifestyle. Booze, cigarettes, partying and poor eating habit does not help his sex drive. Further, testosterone production begins to fall off so he/you must make every effort to stay healthy and active. Supplementation and exercise does help.
It one of those cruel act of nature. Female sex drive increases as they get older while men's decrease. That just the fact.
2006-10-20 04:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Glenroy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋