i got asked out panicked and said yes now im in love (not joking i think about her day and night i even hav dreams about her and she and i are going out with the wrong people) help! dont say im too young cuz i love this person with a passion that no one has ever seen in any movie or drama well thats the thing i know i have my whole life but i feel that i want to spend my whole life with her! so i need to know what i should do wait and risk the chance she will leave before i can tell her or break with my gf and steal her from her boy? I love her to the ends of the earth. i would even die for her but she doesnt know that i need real help! dont tell me het a life cuz i hav one and i love her but my gf and her bf are getting in the way! help! she likes her bf out of desperation i think but yah i love her to death and she thinks im just her friend1 but she is almost the only wun i hav so if i ruin our friendship i will be lonely but i will go crazy if i dont tell her how i feel. I Love You!
2006-10-20 04:04:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. grammar. It really tells us how young you really are.
Young love is very intense, and can seem like you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. Don't. You will grow up and change, as they will. Break it off with your girl, and tell the other one that you're interested in her. It's up to her whether or not she breaks it off with her guy.
2006-10-20 04:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. No one at 13 is in love, first of all. Second, movies aren't real, if everyone had a relationship like they are portrayed in movies, we'd all walk around completely happy. And third, does it really matter if you wait for her or not? Chances are that in 2 weeks, you both will be "in love" with someone else. You're too young to be worrying about all this!
2006-10-20 11:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by megha717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you exactly? From what I just read, I understand that you're in love. The depths of which neither you or I fully know, but you cannot ditch your partner and steal her from hers so you can have a happy ending. It very rarely works that way. Tearing lives apart so you can have a pleasant one usually comes back to bite you in the ***.
My advice is to talk to her about the future prospect of a relationship. For now, don't be so heartless to both your girlfriend and her boyfriend. Discuss things with _her_ so you know what she wants. It's not all about you!
2006-10-20 11:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you make any moves you should take a real look around you... are you happy with your gf right now? what kinds of feelings do you have for your gf? think of the out come if you was take try and breake up that girl and her bf are you reallly ready for the drama? if yes then go for it but be very carfulllll about itttt allllllllllll
2006-10-20 11:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all whats with the "love you!" if u luv her "to the ends of the earth" love her not me! any how, write that down and giv it to her! that was soooooooo romantic! wen guys write stuff like that, it gives a girl a wonderful sensation in their toes and they begin to wonder "is this the man?" wen she knows how u feel, feelings she didnt even know existed will come up and she will relize she too loves u "to the ends of the earth" (p.s dont put the whole i think she loves him becuz shes desprate) and maybe she only likes him to make u jealous becuz she really DUZ luv u!
2006-10-25 18:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about leaving your girl for her without her breaking up with her current boyfriend. If you do that and she doesn't want to break up with him, you lose twice. I suppose you should tell her you really like her...say you love her and she will haul ***. That's too soon and way too creepy. Tell her you like her, see what her response is and then take it from there.
2006-10-20 11:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by caramellatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then tell her and then see what happens, at least she will know and if you die tomorrow you wont have anything to regret. so dont be a chicken and live each day as if there is no time , death is on your left hand side waiting for you
2006-10-20 11:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by carla s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in lust sweetheart. In love is just a feeling that you think you have. Stop going off of your emotions and start thinking rationally. Don't say that you would die for this person when you barely even know them. They need to be tested.
2006-10-20 11:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by ShacklesOff.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are WAY too young, and so is she.
2006-10-20 11:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-20 11:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by QueenKoopa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋