I've been seeing this girl for awhile but it seems when it comes to sex she expects me to do all the work....she just sorta drops hints like 'you should take thhe shirt(or whatever) off'.....what I want to know is how do I get her to take some initiative?????? I think that think that maybe that she's inexperienced, could I be right?
2006-10-20 03:35:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KAE, you are an idiot! With that being said, unfortunately you can't make the woman take initiative. You could talk to her honestly though and tell her that's what turns you on. Honestly, I like women to take control too. I find it boring if I'm the one who takes control. It has nothing to do with being a p ussy! You're damn right I want to feel desired by a woman! It may just be inexperience, but after a long time with her, if she doesn't give you what you want then you may want to consider looking for someone who will.
2006-10-20 05:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by joverlien 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She could be right, but then again maybe it suites her tastes for you to be in control. Remember, every different person has atleast slightly different tastes. But, if she is inexperienced, then she would want you to be in control so that she doesn't mess up and look stupid. She is probly kinda shy. Yeah talk to her about it, even though it'll be a little akward, but say one time she should be in control. Just remember to ALWAYS use protection!!
2006-10-20 03:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Popular Vote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you can't make her take the initiative. This is something she and everyone has to learn on her own in her own good time. Trying to make her do anything is only going to make things worse for you and possibly her.
Sorry dude, but it's the truth.
Also, what KAE said (the second answer) rings true as well.
2006-10-20 03:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Do You See What Happens Larry? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is shy , and look , not all the time a girl should take initiative,I know what you guys like but women need foreplay otherwise they don't want having sex or they don't enjoy it. She will take initiative if she loves you and she wants you to enjoy, talk about it with her!
2006-10-20 03:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out the answers to your questions let us know. Women have been a puzzle to me throughout my life.
2006-10-20 03:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to sign a waiver, so you can't be indicted for doing stuff to her, or to do stuff to you... ;-)
2006-10-20 03:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd talk to her about it...you shouldn't do all the work so to speak...i mean damn...guys want to be desired too!
2006-10-20 03:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Phil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE a girl do anything.
2006-10-20 03:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by newheartin03 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, if that is what you like!
2006-10-20 03:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by redrobot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's wat guys do...they take control. don't be a p*ssy, if she wants to be controlled, control her
2006-10-20 03:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋