i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever we were in history class last year, he kept on asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he braged that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, and started asking me if i knew how the final would be graded. i mean hello! do i look like the teacher? I never gave my name to him and his friends don't know me. he was in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
so this year we have a class together, i find him staring at me all the time. and today he finally talked to me to see if i understood a concept. all i said was "no". i felt so bad afterwards!! we sit half way across the room from each other, but he stares at my face for about 95% of class time. and i just don't get what he wants. can't he talk?? do you think he'll ever talk to me? he is quite cute....
he's pretty popular.. and i'm just regular. could that be it? he even remembers where i sat, stalkerish.....
2006-10-20 03:29:13 · 11 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you are shy too. talk to him. He's tried, but he wants you to talk to him too. Go for it. Don't worry about anything other than what you want....not what he wants. Do you want to talk to him? THEN DO IT.
2006-10-20 03:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not being stalkerish...he wants to talk to you, but the only thing he knows he has in common with you is this class. If you are interested in him look past the awkward questions and answer them with tact. Try and make a conversation out of it. If he asked you how you thought the final would be graded...a good way to answer that would require more neurons than a yes or no is "I'm not really sure, what do you think?" This would prompt him to tell you his opinion and therefore with your cooperation you would then be carrying on a conversation. This then might lead to a more personal discussion and clear up this entire matter. Your other option is of course passing him a note...
Do you like me? Circle Yes or No
This approach is juvenile. Not recommended.
You could always get one of your girlfriends to talk to him for you, but the draw back there is that his interest would then be turned to your friend because she actually had the nerve to talk to him in the first place. Also not recommended if you like him.
If you need to talk you can email me.
2006-10-20 03:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by sapphiresunstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that he is flirting with you in a very subtle way. Staring at your face all the time...Does he smile at you when you look at him? If so, that is a way of flirting. Also, staring at your face means he respects you, and not just your looks, otherwise he'd be staring at your butt all the time. So it's obvious he doesn't like you JUST for your looks, I guess what he wants is for you to come over and talk with him. Probly even flirt back, so feel free to do so. Give him your number and/or email so you can keep in touch. And remember that if he stares you in the face and not the body then he really respects you and he's not just a pervert.
2006-10-20 03:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by The Popular Vote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would happen if you appproch him and ask him questions about class etc. I do want to caution you from experience, if you are "normal" and he is "popular" (as you say) be a bit wary, I had a popular guy talk to me once and he went back with his "popular" group and laughed. If you do not want attention from this boy I suggest ignoring him, be polite, but ignore him.
2006-10-20 03:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..... u seems to be pretty fierce huh :) anyways y don't u juz talk to him too? i mean by ur replies to him, u sounds pretty aloof.. maybe he really want to chat u up and he tries by askin u questions abt school, sth which clearly u can relate to cos u guys r studying the same thing.......u should respond positively otherwise he will NEVER try to talk to u again...... u like him rite? So y give him tat cold treatment?
2006-10-20 03:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the high school experience. He might be in to you a little bit. Tell him you would rather ahve him stare at you over dinner at applebee's than in class.
2006-10-20 03:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be care full, and stop thinking of your self as regular, you are just as good as those that is popular.popular is not always good.
2006-10-20 03:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be careful ......... but then maybe he is just interested in you....... but if what you feel is that he is stalkerish then go with that feeling and stay away....... always trust your instincts and they will help you stay safe
2006-10-20 03:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-20 03:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by D Simon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋