IVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND AUSTIN FOR 9 MONTHS WEVE BEEN THROUGH EVERY THING TOGETHER I EVEN LOST MY UNBORN CHILD HOWEVER I KNOW HES CHEATIN ON ME I EVEN CAUGHT HIM BUT IM STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM WHAT DO I DO? PLZ HELP ME I REALLY NEED IT!
2006-10-20 03:28:22 · 16 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cheats on you once he will do it again.. once a cheater always a cheater... the best thing for you to do is keep yourself occupied and try to stay busy with freinds and try to get over him!
2006-10-20 03:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now take it from me on this one. I'm an older dude and I've been through plenty of relational hell. But if the gun can't stay faithful after only 9 months, then there is no way he'll stay faithfulf for years in a marriage. New love is always an awesome thing, and you think you can't live without the person, but always remember this -- you want to start out with a solid relationship for the long rong. So infidelity issues already is "unacceptable" -- you should dump him -- period. I always say, "never tell me the odds," but seriously he'll most likely do it again so find yourself someone else -- give him his walking papers -- you'll be so much better off in the end. Stay strong, there are sooooooooo many guys out there that will rip you up if you allow yourself to. Finding a good guy is like mowing a field of weeds and all of the sudden you find a little flower -- so keep your eyes peeled.
Have a good day!!!
2006-10-20 10:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by jimtek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him. You might still love him, but he obviously doesnt love you enough, if he can see someone else. You deserve better and a guy that will give you his full attention. Once a cheater, always a cheater and with the knowledge you have about him in the back of your mind, you will never be able to trust him fully.. which makes for a pretty poor relationship.
I would get out while you still can, before more children become involved and your emotions are hurt even more than they are now.
2006-10-20 10:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man is cheating and you know this undeniably true, you have three options at this point. One, you can ignore it and pretend nothing is wrong. Two, you can talk to him and tell him that you think bringing another female into the relationship would be exciting and add spice to you sex life. Three, you can get rid of him and find someone that you can trust. Don't make this more difficult on yourself that it is. Imagine what you want for the future and base your decision on that. The only person you are hurting by being indecisive is yourself.
2006-10-20 10:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him, but no matter what he tells you, he DOES NOT love you! If you love somebody, you put their feelings and needs above your own. He can't possibly be doing this if he cheats on you. I'm sorry but you need to love yourself and never settle for anybody that doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated - with love and respect! I hope you find the strength to do what is right for you. I don't know how old you are, but it really doesn't matter, just don't settle for second best. It may take a while, but there are good men out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who will not cheat on you or hurt you. Peace...
2006-10-20 10:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by pooh1313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you need to let this guy go, he is using you, he has no respect for you and he shows that by cheating on you. You have been through a lot together, was the baby his? Have you talked about your loss? How else does he treat you? Make your decision to leave him or ask him to leave.
2006-10-20 10:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you really in love with him or just in love with the idea of being with someone. Are you going to be able to deal with his cheating on you in 9 years and not just 9 months?
2006-10-20 10:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'd say demmand...honesty 24 seven with this Austin guy or dump him within 24 hours lol. Goodluck!
2006-10-20 10:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by racheliskewlnyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok see i know it hurts and i am really sorry he cheated on you. i know how you feel. if i was you i would kick the bitches *** and get rid of your boyfriend no matter how much it hurts. because if he really loves you and you have every thing he needs then there was no reason to go and cheat on you.
2006-10-20 10:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NAH YOU NEED TO LET THAT GO- THERES SO MANY OTHERS IN THIS WORLD- ENJOY LIFE
AND YOU CAUGHT HIM ALREADY WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE'S NOT WITH SOMEONE ELSE RIGHT NOW??!?!?!?
YOU MIGHT FEEL LIKE ITS THE END OF THE WORLD--BUT ITS NOT. YOU MIGHT NEED A HUG OR A BAT TO KICK HIS ASSSSS.
MOVE ON GET ANOTHER
2006-10-20 10:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋