and it makes me feel terrible and sad bcuz he is so sad,frustated and upset..i dunno how to make him feel happy and *** out of it ive tried everythn i could..nw i m totoally helpless!?
2006-10-20 03:25:09 · 8 answers · asked by sherms.encore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just leave him be. as mean as it sounds, all he needs is time to think, dwell, and then forget.
guys dont like to talk about how theyre feeling, so dont make them, it will only make matters worse.
but dont feel as if youre not a good girlfriend, because you cannot get his spirits up. if he was hurt because of you, than you did your best and you can be a good girlfriend by holding his hand and not saying a word.
2006-10-20 03:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Srah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men need to work out their problems on their own a lot of times. The best thing you can do is tell him how great he is and f he wants you you are there for him. I'm not sure of the problem, to tell you exactly what to say, but just do little things to show your boyfriend how much he means to you. You can do simple things like write a note to him or even make up a care basket for him with his favorite things to cheer him up. Say you are dropping off a package and take over "the Sunshine" basket with his favorite chips, candy, soda, dinner, whatever and even a silly dollar store toy that he might want to play with, rent a movie you know he would like to watch and tell him that he needs to have a little fun and enjoy himself. It's worth a try, just don't keep bothering him. Let him heal on his own time at his own pace. Step aside a little bit and jsut let him know tyou care about him and you worry when he's upset, but you also understand that he needs to work it out. Chances are he is ready to join the human race again soon, so tell him when he's ready you will be right there to help him! Good Luck.
2006-10-20 10:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in high school becuase it sure sounds like it? Don't worry about him dwelling over a problem because only insecure and immature guys do that. I would say drop his *** and go find a guy who doesn't act like a 14 year-old.
2006-10-20 10:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he needs some time to get over this situation
keep an eye on him . And tell him when he needs u u will be there for him
2006-10-20 10:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by mdsubahi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby. Maybe it is time for you to back off and let him grow up a little. You are not his mother nor can you make all his troubles go away. Sooner or later we have to take responsibility for our actions.
2006-10-20 10:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things just take time. Make sure he knows you are there if he needs to talk. Ask him if there is anything you can do to help him. Just be comforting and supportive.
2006-10-20 10:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by debi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same prob was with me because my girl friend easily told to break because ashe going to marry but she is very frank to me.every time she making me feel the fact and slowly slowly i got it,so try to be frank with him and ask the prob and try to find the solution with rest mind and go for it,,,i m sure if you loving really than he will understand you.....best of luck
2006-10-20 10:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by sanjay g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why he's so upset?
2006-10-20 10:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by bx123rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋