I have been with my girlfriend for about 6years now and i love her with all my heart. we have a nice family together and i will do anything for them. However when im out alone (not partying) i seem to look at other girls and want to do something with them. Just want to make out with them or do something. Is this because its been such a long time since ive had someone else or what? i dont understand...it's not like i want to cheat but the temptations are strong..advice plz....
2006-10-20 03:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by sexxxyback76593 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey man relax you are like me a guy I have been with my girlfriend now fiance for 4 years and like you I live her with all my heart we also have a lovely family believe ot or not I also look at other women all the time in the grocery store, gas station, mall, walking down the street basically anywhere and I firmly believe there is nothing wrong with that you say you love your woman so ask yourself if the oppurtunity ever came about that the chance was ther to step out on her what would you do for me the answere is simple it would be no just for the simple reason that I am truly IN LOVE that and the side effects of losing everything we have gained together I guess the main question is are you IN LOVE if you are then enjoy the scenery and relax
2006-10-20 03:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bonzai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptations are always normal. It's how you deal with them is what makes you the person that you are. If you love your g/f, only love her, no one else. Don't touch/kiss/have sex with anyone else. You may think that you don't want to cheat but if you want someone else, then you're thinking of cheating!!!! 6 years? marry her already!
2006-10-20 10:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural. After 6 years, you are just evaluating your relationship and acting like a normal male. Guys can still look at girls and people in general want the things they can not have. Just don't do anything rash because you have this great girl and relationship to think about. Good luck.
2006-10-20 10:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are only boyfriend/girlfriend there is no legal committment for you to observe, just a moral one. You may get the urges to enjoy a bit of different companionship, but that doesn't mean that you have to follow up on them. Nor does you girlfriend when she is out...
2006-10-20 10:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand either. It really sucks because I think all men are like this. As a women I feel as though I will never find a man who wont cheat. I wish I could understand too.
2006-10-20 10:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur a guy..temptations are always there..theres nothing wrong looking at girls and want to do something with them..so long as u dont then its fine..but if u really want to, go look for ur girlfriend..
2006-10-20 10:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try turning the tables. What if it were your girlfriend saying this? How would you feel? Stay focused on your relationship. Resist temptation!
2006-10-20 10:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just the fact of being with someone for so long and not getting to experiement with other people. it happens in a long relationship. hey everyone looks at someone else, doesnt mean they want to be with them. look, but no touch
2006-10-20 10:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Is this girlfriend your first serious relationship?
Perhaps you simply have a wandering eye and a penchant for something new...
2006-10-20 10:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go out bye your self go with someone else
2006-10-20 10:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋