she and i make out and stuff but she says that is as far as she will ever go...i dont mind right now but im worried it might start affecting our relationship later on...
2006-10-20 03:19:02 · 14 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I guess you should try to wait until she is ready to go to the point you want to go to because I bet yall both are still in High School and I bet she is worried about the consequences of having sex.
2006-10-20 03:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Bojangles24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you know about each other, the more you respect one another, and the more committed you are will only enhance the sex when you're ready to go further. You're right, it will impact your relationship later on...it will make it better, stronger, and happier. Some things are really worth the wait..and if they're not it's just about the sex. Granted, its a strong drive, but best when there is deep love.
2006-10-20 10:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by mlist32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way with my boyfriend. I know he's not a virgin but that doesnt affect me. He might ask me to do stuff but I just say no. Just respect her decision. If you really like her and what not you will respect what she says, if she says no then that means no
2006-10-20 10:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by kandiomnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect your firlfriend for not wanting too rush into having sex with you!! First time Sex is a big step in any girls life, also in a guys life. It's not something too take lightly.
It should not affect your relationship unless YOU let it. Don't put pressure on your girlfriend too have sex with you or you may just end up destroying the relationship.
2006-10-20 10:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rose T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just because she doesn't want to go any farther than making out give it some time...Seems like she will be ready for more sex play before too long... Just don't push her too hard....Give her the time she needs and continue making out only step it up a little into more felly touchy....Know what I mean...
2006-10-20 10:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....if you really want to be with her and you see that you two might have a future together,then what's the problem. It's not all about the sex. Seriously, give it awhile and she'll probably just give in to her temptations and do it. I did. I couldn't wait any longer to have sex with my bf!! Just give it some time!!
2006-10-20 10:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo for her. She has a brain and uses it. It is not necessarily about what "you" want all the time. She does not exist to be a replacement for your mother nor is she your slave or servant or anything; she is an equal so treat her as one. Maturity slowly engulfs you
2006-10-20 10:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient dude. i was with my girl for 3 years until we went all the way.after a year of being with her we would just go to about 2nd base the following yea 2nd and 3rd base.and then on the 3rd we hit a grand slam. so be patient, itll all be worth it more if you wait.if she gives it up quick then you will be disappointed
2006-10-20 10:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what i told my bf,i mean he will ask..or maybe he jsut try doing something...but i'll tell hm whether i like it or not,or maybe just not for now..... i dont think it will affect ur relationship : )
2006-10-20 10:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by quidditchboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE PATIENT IM SURE EVENTUALLY SHE"LL WANT MORE! AND IF NOT...THEN JUST CONTINUE TO BUILD ON IT! SHELL COME AROUND! BUT THEN AGAIN IF THERES STILL A PROBLEM.....CALL ME! LOL
2006-10-20 10:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by alwayslovely3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋