how come everytime i get a boyfriend they always cheat on me and dont ever cheat on them, it makes me really upset, but when i asked my ex why he said he was sorry and didnt mean too, but its the second time hes cheated,...i dont understand as am a good girlfriend to have as i dont cheat, and i love them....and then i trust them...Does anyone know why they do cheat cause i give them everything i can offer. thank you. x
2006-10-20 03:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by maz999379 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats the thing hes not a bad boy well all of them arent as in dont smoke dont do drugs arnt involved in the police, i dont know what i do wrong.
2006-10-20 03:21:09 · update #1
Not all men are like it just the ones i go out with cheat on me...
2006-10-20 03:22:21 · update #2
the guys i do go out with are friends before i go out with them.
2006-10-20 21:17:57 · update #3
Look at the "type". Do all the guys you date fall into the same classification of "tall, dark haired and handsome"? (whatever your image of the perfect man is). Do they suggest everything, or do you find yourself having to "force" them into spending time with you?
Maybe you want to change your type. If the guys you've been dating fall into the same categories in more than one thing, and they've all cheated on you, you may be attracted to the "cheating type".
Try changing a variable, or taking a break. Don't always go for appearance- because, well let's face it, in 50 years, will their face/body be the same? Probably not.
If your type is athletic and outgoing, maybe try switching to someone who is a little bit more shy.
All things said, you probably just haven't found the right guy yet. Don't let it harden your heart- he's out there somewhere and waiting to be found!
2006-10-20 03:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how pretty you are,how sexy you are, how blah,blah..... you are.. you know what i mean? Umm... I'm a man and i can't stop check'n out other girls... It's like an ego in all men,,, written in our DNA's more girls means the more goodlooking you are. Sometime just getting all girls and getting laid all the time is good for us... Because the feeling is really unexplainable? Specially if we get laid like 3 different girls in a day breakfast,lunch and dinner.. Its like??? Being in heaven... Means i'm a very attractive guy. Love? We can feel love but still you can not make a guy loyal to you. We don't get satisfied at all. Thats men... I don't know what other men are like... But mostly it's in the ratio of 9 is to 10 that guys can't stay loyal and faithfull... There the truth unveil........
2006-10-20 03:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by gorzjec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does it because he knows that he can get away with it. I would get rid of a cheater regardless because it would always be on your mind that he is cheating again and make you CRAZY.
My advice is to keep them on their toes, but not too much! Come up missing yourself for a couple hours. Keep yourself busy with friends, girlfriends and such. Spend a couple hours at the library, shopping or something. Take up a new hobbie just to show that you are not always available and they should have to work for your attention.
Believe in yourself! You are worth true love and happiness just like the next girl. Staying with a cheater is destructive.
2006-10-20 03:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ohmyheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at why you're attracting the wrong sort of guys. What signals do you send out? Are you too keen too soon or have you got low self esteem? You need to be confident in yourself and willing to be friends with a guy before rushing into dating and sex, and then you'll attract decent guys who respect you. Maybe concentrate on widening your social circle and just being friends with guys, and then the right person will come to you naturally. That way you'll know a guy pretty well before you start thinking about love and sex, and you'll trust him more.
2006-10-20 03:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about the boyfriends you are choosing. Are they players? Did they cheat on someone else to be with you? How soon are you calling them your boyfriend? Being a good girlfriend, unfortunately, is not a guarantee that a man will not cheat. Men who cheat are going to cheat no matter how good their partner is and how well she treats him. You need to select men that are not cheaters. Not all men cheat. You need to ease into a relationship and you will be able to figure this out BEFORE it gets physical.
2006-10-20 03:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they cheat cause thier PIGS!!!!!!
You can give the world, if they dont respect you and appreciate what you do for them, they dont know what they got till its gone, you just pick the rotten ones! dont worry theres nothing wrong with you, some folks just know how to pick em thats all! theres plenty out there, keep shopping and your bound to pick a winner
2006-10-20 03:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you're picking out the douchebags. Find an actual nice guy and not some "exciting" badboy.
2006-10-20 03:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Justin G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they probably cheat on you because A. lack of sex
B. the guys you date are assholes. Keep looking. I cant explain why guys cheat...it a a dick thing.
2006-10-20 03:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by jester9236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When folks are so use to variety, it's difficult if not empossible to stick to one person, thus one of the problems with comeplete sexual freedom!
2006-10-20 03:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can pay attention to whatever type of guy you want to,
can't you?
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2006-10-20 03:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋