There is this girl I like but I am afraid to go up to her and ask her out.I am afraid of her saying NO and telling her friends what happened they might laugh at me.I NEED HELP!!!
2006-10-20 03:10:54 · 26 answers · asked by Chaser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be affraid. If they make fun of you, then they are not worth the time of day anyway. Experience has tought me that it never hurts to ask, there is NO such thing as a stupid question, and you are more than likely to be surprised at the answer than not. If you like her, go for it! You really have nothing to lose.
2006-10-20 03:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by skirtman29505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Women are like that. If you want to take her out you need to ask and just live with it if she says no. Your going to get more no's than yes's in life so don't let it bother you. You will never know if you don't ask and might miss something good. It's always worth it...if her and her friends laugh then they aren't the kind of people you want to be associated with anyway.
2006-10-20 12:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you never ask her out then you will never know if anything had been possible. If she is worth having, then you have to take the risk and just ask before some other guy beats you to her and you kick yourself for not asking her first. You have to suck it up and just do it. Depending on the girl, some like romantic ways of being asked out others just want it straight out. If you want the least possible embarassing way, just go up to her and ask her out. If you want a potential riskier move, send her a letter with poetry from a 'secret admirer' who will meet her at this place at this time if she is interested and then ask her out afterwards. Good luck.
2006-10-20 10:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection can be difficult to accept without embarrassment. As you grow older, it will become easier. Rejection is a normal part of life. Rehearse how you will ask her. Think of a place where you feel comfortable to take her. Perhaps you can invite her to walk around the mall. Buy her a meal or a snack there. Its a way for you to talk while you both window shop. Girls love the mall!
2006-10-20 10:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out what her likes and dislikes are (some of her female friends MIGHT tell you, if they're being honest.)
Invite her out for dinner at a restaurant that's not too expensive, so that you can better afford and when, or if she accepts, engage in small talk about anything but don't dither.
Check out the links and don't be shy with her. Good luck!!
2006-10-20 10:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl then step up to the plate and ask her out you might be surprise at her answer.if you feel she is a talker and cannot understand personal business between two peoples then she is not for you unless she is a teenager or younger if so this is to be expected .teenagers shares everything with there friends
2006-10-20 10:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ethel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be romantic. show her that you care, give her a rose when you ask her out. or take her out then suggest to her about dating...something like that. most girls can't resist that kind of stuff. But if she says no, then she's not worth the trouble! and it might take you awhile to get over her, but everybody goes through rejection. ANd also, if her friends laugh at you, then they're not worth the trouble either. just ignore them, if they laugh they're just a** holes.
2006-10-20 10:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If she laughs and tell's her friends anything other than you asked her out, she wasn't worth it in the first place. And who cares what her friends think.
2006-10-20 10:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her up and say hey do you wanna hang go to the movies or something? That way if she lets you down a least its thru the phone.
2006-10-20 10:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by It's MEEEE!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not text her or email her! that makes u WEAK!! get some balls and go up and ask her out, but be smart. do it when there is no one around to watch you!! Be smart and know what to say, dont studder. and have some faith. try that! good luck pal
2006-10-20 10:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋