make love to me... he keeps on asking... but i don't know how to do something like that?
2006-10-20 02:53:48 · 39 answers · asked by cantichoose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow...if you're freaky like that..and you want to do that....well that's on you....i mean there's a good chance they'll ask for some double penetration, and i don't know if you'd like to get manhandled like that. But to each their own, hell if swingers are happy with their way of sex life...then why should it be any different with you?
NOW, on the other hand...that can cause some serious relationship problems...especially with the so-called friend, and possibly the bf. One is...if you had the guts to do such a thing, the bf might turn into a dumbass and think "wait, if she's so willin to screw some other guy, she might cheat on me!" and then BAM problem. Or, "oh my god she's a freak, maybe i can get her to get a gf so we can do a 3some with a GIRL!" and eventually that sexual encounter can lead to even MORE outrageous things...
Another scenario is the best friend of his, what if he finds you attractive and wants to extend it, like 'sharing' the gf bit? Do you want to be shared by 2 guys like that? It sounds all fine and dandy to get so much attention, but stuff like that is better left to the seriously freaky people...or swingers...and not for the normal monogamous relationships.
2006-10-20 03:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see as a guy who wants to do this kind of stuff is not really into you. He is into what you are willing to do. You two should be happy in your relationship with others having to be in it. If you are looking for long term, maybe he is not the one. He also should not pressure you and keep asking. If you are unsure or say no, then well he just needs to drop it. I was in a similar relationship before and well it did not work out because I refused to do it and he wanted some girl who would. You have to respect yourself and your sexuality. If you doubt it then the answer should be no. Stand up for yourself girl!
2006-10-20 03:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful (your b/f may be on the Down Low). Why would your b/f want to share you with another man (or is his friend a woman)? Most men fantasize about threesomes, but usually with two women. Doing that would take you to a whole new freak level, and I don't believe he would respect you in the morning.
*P,S: Good girls do not have sex (it wouldn't be making love) with two men at one time. And the Down Low are under cover Homosexuals.
2006-10-20 03:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If your b/f cared anything about you, he wouldn't be asking you to allow his friend to be intimate with you. It's obvious that he doesn't love you, you need to leave him alone. Tell him no. Never allow a person to disrespect you, your body and your mind. The question is do you love him more than you love yourself? If you do what he is asking, you are showing him that you love him more than you love yourself. Don't let him do this to you. He will never have respect for you. Since you don't you should respect yourself and move on.
2006-10-20 02:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a " Master - Slave " relation with your B/F, he can not impose such a request on you without your own consent and free will.
I do not call asking such a request though "making love", for making love is an exchange of emotion and body feelings between ( TWO ) persons falling in love, and does not work with a TRIO or more !!!
Just a humble opinion .....!!!!!!
2006-10-20 03:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Fadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! It's something everyone should experience. you don't have to know what to do, just go with what you feel. they'll help guide you. Most women that want to do that, it's just a fantasy for. I think you ought to just for the experience, then you can decide if you like it or not. Just make it clear that if there is something you don't want to do, that no means no!
2006-10-20 03:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend asked me sum sh*t like that..#1 I would think he had no respect for me b/c he gonna let his boy nut all up in me. # 2 Your not a TOY to be passed around, if he's asking you to do this, how many more times & w/ who else is he gonna bring home?
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Plus having sex with friends never has a happy ending!
2006-10-20 03:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your old enough to be involved in this type of behavior and your comfortable with it then go ahead. Just remember the level of respect these people have for you will be altered. Especially if others are aware of your position. Remember to use protection.
2006-10-20 02:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! you should not allow them to make love to you. if you dont know how to do it, and you have to actually post this question on here then the answer is NO
2006-10-20 02:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by britt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a trick of your loyalty or if you are skanky. I would not go there and I would break up with my bf for even asking me to do such a thing, wether its a test on if he can trust me or not, I would kick him to the curb and tell his friend good riddens too!! you are being tested..... this is a trick , as for your loyalty to your bf, and if you go through with this, EVERYONE will know and you will be called a **** and other aweful names from your *who you thought were* your friends. Please don't do this, and get out of it NOW. Blessed be................
2006-10-20 03:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋