I dont even know why I am writing it here, but I dont have many people to vent to. I just found out my b*tch of a fiance had a boy toy on the side. I did everything for her. Im so pissed right now! What has two thumbs and is going to be getting bezerker drunk today........THIS GUY! Life Sucks!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 02:48:39 · 20 answers · asked by c_hayt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believable
2006-10-20 02:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Would it be accurate to say that she is your EX FIANCE?
Just remember, the best revenge is living well.
You can do yourself a favour by finding SOMEONE to talk to instead of getting BLOTTO! You say you don't have many people who you can talk to, but how about the guy who was going to be your best man at your now cancelled wedding?
You have every right to be pissed man! That's the ultimate betrayal. You are now beginning a process of taking someone who you had woven deeply into your life, & planned to spend the rest of your life with, & now you have to undo all of that. It's a challenge, & it's painfull, but getting all of your feelings out is the quickest way to bring the process to an ultimate end. Drinking, or getting high will only supress the feelings & slow down the process considerably.
Take it easy, & take good care of yourself. Turn to your friends, & don't hold back any of your feelings, you deserve to be given all of the kindness & sympathy that a man can get today.
2006-10-20 10:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain brother. I found out last week that the woman that I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with obviously didn't have as much respect for me and the future that we were going to have as I thought she did. I read all these questions on here from women wondering where all the good/nice guys are. But when they have one that truly cares and wants to do nothing more than love them, give them the world and the life they deserve they don't see it.
LOVE SUCKS !
2006-10-20 09:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has proven herself to be a selfish liar. Thank God that you haven't said I do yet and consider yourself lucky. Dump her out with the rest of the trash and move on with your life. No one deserves to be treated the way that she has treated you.
2006-10-20 09:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww.... so sorry, there there.
i wish i could do/say something to help you feel better.
bezerker drunk sounds like just the thing... my advise though?
do it at home and have a couple of friends over...
don't want to get in any trouble you regret over this....
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2006-10-20 09:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad. Well you deserve to go out and have some fun. It's her loss I'm sure. It will get better! Good luck!
2006-10-20 09:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a trip to thai land
Best over someone is get under someone.
Fiance huh? well you know she can't be trusted no matter who she marry. so better now then after marrying her uh?
2006-10-20 09:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man thats harsh but hey getting drunk over it is way macho dont get drunk
2006-10-20 09:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by stresshorse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least you found out before you got married.
2006-10-20 09:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by lynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOOHOO! Let's party! always lookin for an excuse. BUT don't drink to spite her, drink to celebrate the fact that you have more opportunities out there for you now. **** the *****, I am sure you can do better. Have fun and be careful please.
2006-10-20 09:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋