Is it luck of communication or what?
I get mad at my bf every other week, and we don’t talk for like 2 days and I call him and we talk like nothing happen?? Odd right anyway we see each other Monday and wed, and also sometimes when I get off work I go to his house and we have sex! I want it to be more then sex, but it seems like he doesn’t get it at all. He cant come over my house, and I cant spend the night at his house, and I cant stay past midnight at his place he lives by him self because my parent don’t allow that. So this week on Tuesday we had a fight so I didn’t call him all day tues, and wed and we talked Thursday, and after I got of work I called him and I told him I was coming to see him, and he said I am going to get something to eat and I am going to my boy house, I got mad because he could said u can come we can go out to eat. So he calls this morning and said today is firday u can come and see me after work and I said I get of at 10pm what are we going to do, I fell like I am just his sex buddy he doesn’t really want to take me out he just want to have sex with me and I said I have to work know he is mad.
2006-10-20 02:47:39 · 17 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U ever heard the saying: "Don't buy the cow if the milk is free!"
U have been knowing that's all it was....now step outside of ur comfort zone, quit giving the milk away for free..and find some1 that u can't stand to be apart from every minute of evry day and who returns the same to u!!!!
2006-10-20 02:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by des 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of boundaries here that you have stated. If you think u don't want it, just move on. If you don't want to have sex that day, just say NO. Nobody is tying your arms around. you said you talk, so it doesn't sound like a sex buddy. Your time is limited anyway. You can't revolve your world around him and neither can he. You 2 need to sit down and get your stuff straighten out, instead of trying to hurt each other. Nothing will come out of it this way.
2006-10-20 02:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to tell him how you feel first of all and let him tell you how he feels. Make him tell you exactly what he's looking for in this relationship and you'll get your answer. Don't allow him to walk all over you, stand your ground and if he continues to treat you like this then you need to move on. That would not sit well with me at all, I am the type of woman that demands respect and will make sure I get it one way or the other, but he's not respecting you right now and because you have allowed it to go on for so long, he probably never will. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-20 03:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your answer. he's just after your body, he's just after sex! it is transparent that He doesn't love you at all. he is using you to satisfy his ego and his urge. you can feel it everytime you do it, if it's out of love, or he just wants to release a sperm out of his p****. you're not an object or an animal, you have brains and the heart as well. don't let him own you, because if he does.. you're a slave for him and tied with ball and chains.
try to reflect, and if you think you really need something more than that, then get out of that nonsense relationship.
it's time to respect yourself, and love yourself. maybe you loved him too much that you forgot your worth and value as a person. you're not a machine, but even machine gets tired.
YOU deserve better!.. don't you think so?
GOD did not create you, to be a slave for someone. hi? =)
2006-10-20 02:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by MARIA JANICE 31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup yall are just better off sex buddies unless your trying to make it something else. Ask him how he feels about you and if he wants to be you. Tell him you want to be more than just sex buddies and see what he says
2006-10-20 02:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by L00KiN F0R MR. RiGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I am getting, to him that is all you are, a sex partner. I could be reading this wrong, I don't know.
2006-10-20 02:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by supernerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dont understand ..is it commitment you want?...if just being a sex buddy is an issue tell him u want someone who wants marriage and more one on one time..u need to write shorter more concise sentences dear..
2006-10-20 02:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy has more than you coming to his house-- he is timing your arrival and departure so he can move his other play toys in and out--he's a player and you are the fiddle -- dump him and move on --he has his bachelor pad and using it very well
2006-10-20 03:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seems like he only thinks of himself and doesnt really care about you and that its his way and no other way. Its time for you to assess whether this relationship is still worth it.
2006-10-20 02:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about or just leave him if you really think he only wants you for sex.
2006-10-20 02:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋