IAm 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.
But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.
These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.
Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM
2006-10-20 02:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by Benny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go and get it over with. Condoms aren't a guarantee but it is much less likely that you got HIV if you always used one. The test will give you peace of mind. Even if it turns out positive, you will be able to handle that better as fact than as a hypothetical.
2006-10-20 02:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always have used a condom and it didn't break and you don't share needles, probably nothing to worry about. If you thing there is a reason to get tested or if it would make you feel better. Then get tested. Relax.
Be careful in the future, people are not always so lucky.
Read some books on STDs maybe. Not the propaganda that is just there to scare us. Real good info type books.
2006-10-20 02:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get tested. It's just not a smart thing to not get tested because youre scared. That doesnt make sense. If youre positive, you can deal with it. If you dont know, you can't deal with it. HIV is more like a chronic illness now, not so much of a terminal disease. You can live with it for 30+ years if you catch it early. Get tested, even if you always use condoms. Worst case scenario, you find out your positive and it's always better to know sooner rather than later.
2006-10-20 02:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel like you are going out of your mind with HIV testing. But you should do it because it's better to KNOW than NOT TO KNOW. If you don't know, it is always going to be in the back of your head, lingering.
2006-10-20 03:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you more afraid of finding out..or dying painfully, possibly causing the deaths of others because you were afraid to find out? Go it doesn't hurt....much. ;D It's too important to let your fears control you. It's ok to be afraid, just don't let fear control your actions. Do what is right!
2006-10-20 02:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u mite as well go ahead in so that u wont pass it on to ur kid or ur wife. So its better to just find out
2006-10-20 02:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by L00KiN F0R MR. RiGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worry about it after you have the test and it comes back positive........ what you are oing now is just stupid worrying without an answer........... and if it comes back negitive i hope you have learnt your lesson and are more descerning about who you sleep with in the future
2006-10-20 02:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish you came to realize these thing sooner... take the test!!! hope its not to late!
that's why you should only have sex with some one you really love!
2006-10-20 02:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go-- IT'S BETTER NOW THAN LATER
2006-10-20 02:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should geyt tested
2006-10-20 02:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋