my boyfriend is my ex's brother the thing is, my ex wants to be with me again and there is this girl who is obsesed with my boyfriend and she has been saying to my boyfriend that im with my ex . We love each other but this problem is getting on our nerves and where ever we go either my ex or this girl is watching us. What should i do?
Ps. this girl is really obsesed with my boyfriend she even told him that if he wasnt with her she would kill herself she is crazy!!!!
2006-10-20 02:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by cangri girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does your heart say? follow the heart, lead with the mind. not always right, but at least you will know you made a decision to do soemthing instead of just letting things happen!
2006-10-20 02:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by ceebee1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love each other than the other two shouldn't be a problem for you.....tell the ex it is over...why are you even discussing being with him again....as far as the girl...if you know she is just trying to just cause problems then ignore what she has to say...she can only create the problems that you allow her too..if they want to watch you....kiss each other often in front of them...maybe they will get the message...act like they don't even exist....conversations between the two of you should not include the two of them
2006-10-20 09:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If, as you say, you are committed (at least for now) to your boyfriend, you need to present a united front. Go to both of these people and tell them that you are a couple and do not intend to let them cause problems for you. Be sure that you do this together and then follow through.
2006-10-20 09:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Been there 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three words: Personal Protection Order (P.P.O). She sounds like she's stalking this guy, and needs to get a life. As far as your ex/his brother goes, well, that's intimate family matters, and you are on your own there.
2006-10-20 09:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
damn, sounds like someone needs to lock this girl up. I don't know you just either ignore them or put a straining order on the girl, not much you can do about his brother though.
2006-10-20 09:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You get the hell over it! Honestly are you going to keep living your life around other people or are you going to do what you and your bf damn well please. Sometimes you have to step on the rats to get out of the rat race, but no matter what you do to win that race you are still a rat. Remember That.
2006-10-20 09:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all about trust, trust in each other and what you have, if you have that then nothing and no one can be an issue or create problems for you.
2006-10-20 09:29:30 · answer #7 · answered by angel_gp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her kill herself thats on her......... just keep your bf happy and dont let all the outside stuff interfer and make sure he knows she is causing trouble. There is nothing you can do to stop it but ignore it......... when she knows its not working then she will either stop or kill herself ............ a gurl asked my husband if he had any condoms in front of me to cause trouble...... it didnt work cause we talk ... so keep it in the open
2006-10-20 09:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I THINK THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND NEEDS TO TALK TO HER WITHOUT HURTING HER AND TELL HER HE IS WITH YOU. YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR EX IN HIS PLACE AND TELL HIM IT IS OVER AND I AM HAPPY WITH MY NEW AND IF THAT IS NOT ENOUGH BRING THE AUTHORITIES INTO IT ESPECIALLY IF SOME ONE HAD THREATENED TO COMMIT SUICIDE. YOU DO NOT WANT THAT ON YOUR CONSCIENCE
2006-10-20 09:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by GEE GEE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE THEM......They seem CRAZY!!!!
2006-10-20 09:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bianca 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋