Picture this. You felt you got the angel you always wanted to, and it's only when you decide to shack up with her, you learn she has had a lesbian "girl"-friend in the past. Would she remain loyal to a straight partner now?
2006-10-20 02:09:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3-some as someone said, is "Funny", but not with a pair of Lesbians for sure!
2006-10-20 02:14:03 · update #1
When someone is bi-sexual it doesn't mean that they are attracted to everyone that they pass on the street. It simply means that they find certain men and women attractive. If your girl never gives you any implications that she would cheat on you with a man then you should assume the same for women. A common misconception about bi-sexuals is that they will sleep with anyone. If she is a good person then you have no reason not to trust her around anyone.
2006-10-20 02:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, I mean obviously she married you which means she loves you, but sometimes feels that shes missing that little extra fun she never had because she only tried it once, she might have enjoyed it. This is definetley a subject you have to be open about. I can tell by you posting this question you are very conservatice and dont feel it is appropriate to let your wife explore, and I understand that, but would you rather you know about her doing it , or do it behind your back. Part of being a couple and being married is coping, Its time so sit down and talk about what this is going to do to your relationship? Does she want to pursue it? Have her feelings changed? All things you need to know. You might be able to work out some sort of arrangement if not, then you are hurting yourself. People have free will and enjoy what they want to enjoy. No guy will ever admit it knowingly and I would if I could remember, but every guy has bi-sexual thoughts at one time in their life its a scientific fact. This is still the person you married so treat he as such and see what happens.
2006-10-20 02:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would encourage her to express those feelings(That is IF you are ok with such an arrangement).Do you really think she is gonna leave a guy kind and big enough to put aside his fears and insecurities long enough to allow her to pursue her Bi-feelings?If she does, she wasn't worth your time anyway.If she stays, and you can all work it out (You, your g/f and her g/f) you may find yourself the proud recipent of a nice little bonus.However, do keep in mind that a relationship of that nature will require a lot of work on everyone's part and if it's not for you, don't force it.You have a right to your sexual tastes too.
Now go listen to the Type O' Negative song "My Girlfriend's Girlfriend" for more inspiration-good luck.
2006-10-20 02:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is union. that's as organic because the chemical bonding of two atoms. Any time 2 issues come jointly in union that's an act of love, notwithstanding large or small. some people do certainly look able to better love than others in a social, emotional, romantic, or religious experience. i imagine a number of it has to do with how a lot that man or woman has been loved. that's plenty a lot less stressful to advance in love even as those who're round you want you.
2016-10-16 05:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if you learned your "straight" spouse has a strong bisexual curiosity?
Ummm...jump for joy. Two guys together is gross but two women together is a beautiful thing...as long as they're both attractive that is.
2006-10-20 02:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I haven't been in that situation, but from my todays (theoretic) point of view it wouldn't disturb me too much.
I guess I wouldn't even worry if she meets her "ex" every now and then - as long as it's me who is the center of her desire.
for me, it is a completely other thing than if she were having an affair with a man...
2006-10-20 03:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When 2 girls get it on it is not cheating. I think it is hot and my 2 college g/f were bi and I loved it.
2006-10-20 02:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
You are getting into the married lifestyle now.
Children.
And if she does revert, think of the opportunities.
Dave
2006-10-20 02:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person.
2006-10-20 02:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you from my point of view because i was bi at one point that girl might have caught her at a point in her life were she was down and out and if it was in tha pass she might still have that gay urge but if shes with you she MIGHT not act on her feelings for a female and stick wit you!!!!
2006-10-20 02:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋