How can you tell if a guy fancies you and is not just after sex?
Ive asked him and he says he does fancy me and hes not just after sex but wouldnt he say that anyway?
2006-10-20 02:07:32 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he fancies you then of course he will want sex with you. Whether or not he is only after sex, you'll only know after you've had it with him. He probably won't know if he's only after sex until after then either.
Us men don't generally plan to have sex with a woman and then mess with her head by doing a runner, it's just that sometimes you discover that there's not much left to stick around for afterwards. I defy any woman to not feel the same sometimes.
2006-10-20 02:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't believe it that he isn't after sex most men are being I am I know. You can put him to the test by telling him when you will want to have sex with him, after six months, a year, marriage and then see what he says and see if he still with you. That way you will be sure if what he said is true.
2006-10-20 02:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you and fancies you, you would know. He will care for you, wait for you as long as it takes and will not force you to have sex but if he is only after sex, then he should be in hurry
2006-10-20 02:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he'd say that! I mean, would you still have sex with him if he said he didn't fancy you? No, exactly. But anyway don't let him pressurize you into anything unless you are sure it's what you want.
2006-10-20 02:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys will say anything just to get a bit!! make sure you know how genuine he is before you get stuck in, as if he does you wrong and has lied just to get you to have sex then you'll feel hurt and used afterwards. think about it hun...
it's hard to tell if a guy genuinely does fancy a girl or not, they generally have had years of practice in the blagging department !!
=)
2006-10-20 02:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you say from the start that you will not have sex with someone you have not had as a boyfriend for a few years then you will find most will vanish. However you will have to do that because if you have sex too soon they will think less of you.
2006-10-20 02:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his actions!! Refuse to do the deed and see how long he sticks about. Judge the way he reacts towards you, the quaklity time that he wants to spend with you for eg- if he seems to enjoy your company without trying to get physical. Dont ask him as he wont tell the truth!
Hold out till u think he is worthy of it and after your time as well as your body!
2006-10-20 02:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Scots lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really depends on how old you are and he is. Make him wait, thats the best thing to do. Don't feel forced into it, If you do then he is not worth it. Im sure he does fancy you if he says he does but blokes like to mess with your head. I made my man wait and he is now my fiance!! good luck hun x
2006-10-20 02:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kirstycs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex straight away tell him you need to be with him for 3 months before you even think about sex,that should sort the men from the boys.men will promise the world to have a quick shag,
2006-10-20 02:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by karen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep your dead right he would just say that anyway. Make him wait for it (easy to say I know). Get to know him first at least - I made a massive mistake by jumping right in there and going to bed with a guy, he was very goodlooking but a right dunce and idiot which everyone else seemed to know, I get a massive slagging about it now from my friends saying " oh you slept with "super stupid" (our little nickname for him). And whats more he used me!!!
Dont fall for it girl, please!
2006-10-20 02:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋