I want my boyfriend to play with me more. How do I get him to? In tickle wars and stuff he always lets me win. Maybe I don't wanna win. How can I get him to tickle me more and play mean and merciless?
2006-10-20 02:05:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whenever you're laying on the couch or bed together, or when you find another opportunity to do this, keep sticking your barefeet in his face and say, "Don't I have the cutest toes?" After awhile, it should get to be such an annoyance to him that he will, out of frustration, grab and tickle them until you promise never to do it again.
2006-10-20 02:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is to build a friendship based on trust and respect. Once that is in place, you have a few options:
1. Talk with them and ask him why he always lets you win. Tell him that you think it might be fun for both of you if he were to tickle you in a fiesty, playful manner. It might be a good idea to establish "safe words" so that he will continue tickling you if you say "stop" or "no" but he will stop ticklihg you if you use the safe word. Stress the importance of respect and the desire to keep it fun for BOTH of you. With open communication, you might be able to remove obstacles and get the payback you desire.
2. Find activities and events that you can "bet" on. Make the bet that the winner gets to tickle the loser playfully and respectfully for 15 - 30 minutes on the feet, legs, stomach, sides and armpits. (Make sure that if you win, you are gentle and provide air breaks to keep it fun and safe).
3. Playfully taunt him. Say things like "I am glad that I am not as ticklish as you are" when you tickle them. When he retaliates, try not to block the tickling (unless you really can't help it) but laugh and say something like "tell me when you are really going to tickle me!". As you laugh, do NOT say things like "stop" or "no, not there" or he may stop short of your desires (unless you have already discussed safe words.
Feel free to email me if you need additional suggestions.
Good luck and Happy tickles!!!
2006-10-21 21:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to challenge his ego......most of us guys are suckers for a good challenge, specially from our girlfriends. When a guy has a chance to prove his prowess he usually brings his best game. Do this.....while you two are playing the tickle game or the physical play.....look him straight in the eyes and say; "Is that all you've got"? After you guys finish the whole playing session,and whatever it leads to, take a moment to let him know in a very seductive and sweet tone, that you really enjoy being tickled and played with......trust me, unless he's totally brain-dead, he'll get the message.
Best of Luck!
p.s. Let me know if it works
2006-10-20 02:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't force him to play with you more and he's not braindead if he doesn't tickle you more. However, talk to him about what you want. I know it's hard, but that's the only solution. Also, don't put your feet in his face unless you don't mind if he puts his feet in your face.
2006-10-20 05:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by joverlien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy a whip and some leather. That should do it. :) Seriously, just tell him that you like to play rough and that your not a china doll, you won't break. You could also think abou thow lucky you are that he's a gentleman.
2006-10-20 02:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by brianscupcake2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be mean an merciless to him and he'll get the drift. i wish i were there. the foreplay would last a while and you'll be mad wet when i'm done! ;)
2006-10-20 02:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tickle wars, hmmm....
2006-10-20 02:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur bf is not a playful person. Don't force it on him
2006-10-20 02:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike women, If you tell a guy what you want he'll probably give it to you.
2006-10-20 02:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Coz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
tickle wars? what the hell...how old are you 12?
2006-10-20 02:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by stallion6539 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋