Hye I have a question from specially boys, Girls who has experience can also tell me.. Anyone can ans me I have no problem with it.. But i wana know that Is it possible that a boy love one girl and he go to bed with another girl. Having a girlfreind(just mail contacts and is far) and go to bed with another girl.. His girlfreind doesnt believe in him when he says that he stil loves her, but commited a mistake with another girl.. I wana know is it possible?
2006-10-20 01:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Sensitvie g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, both of them broked up. For about a year his gf was kind of mad, like what happend to him at once. She was contacting him, but he never told her this reason. After about one year he told her the reason of break up.. His gf was saying"So u were in love with another girl". He said no.. Its just a mistake. I was like surprised.. Either that guy is lying to her or he is saying the truth.
So guys those both have already broken up. I just wana know Is it possible that a guy loves one girl and himself says to her that I love you but i cant own u cuz I have commited a mistake with another girl. lol.. That girl(with whome he commited mistake) dont want him but he is behind her.. So u can see here that he has cheated on his gf.. But he doesnt accept this all.. Puff.. Thats why I asked u guys to tell me whether its possible, being in love with one girl, firstly commit a mistake(no care for ur gf) and than say that i still love my gf. Isnt it an interestin drama....
2006-10-20 02:27:08 · update #1
Wel thanks chetannand sth like that.. But he wasnt lying. So what now'??
2006-10-20 02:31:03 · update #2
no , thats called not being faithful to your girlfriend, otherwise cheating
2006-10-20 02:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's... possible, yes. However, as a woman, I can tell you that if I can't trust my partner to be faithful... then, though I may love him, I will not be very willing at all to pursue a relationship.
You mention the girlfriend lives far away and there's no contact and the boyfriend went to bed with another girl. I would say that the boyfriend just can't handle a long-distance relationship. Even if he loves her, he's not quite taking the responsiblity that a relationship like that brings. Responsibility is crucial in a relationship.
So, while it's indeed possible that the boyfriend still loves the girlfriend... I can't say I'd blame the girlfriend if she decides she doesn't want to go any further with that relationship.
2006-10-20 02:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Bluey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you like 5 years old? No its not ok. There is never never a good reason to cheat on someone you love. Tell the guy to grow some balls and break it off with the girlfriend so he can be with the person he truly loves.
2006-10-20 02:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by George J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a man it is always possible, it is only sex (but many things can happen because of that : STD, pregnancy , the other girl falling for you... So, don't take it lightly.) But what if your girlfriend told you the same thing?
I do believe you that it is only a mistake & that you do love your far away girlfriend but then again you are not my boyfriend.
Try hard to make her forgive you, if you love her she will forgive you (not that she has to) BUT don't do it again!!!! (very unlikely!)
2006-10-20 02:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by marissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a girl, but according to my experience, and as i have a lot of friends (boys), i know that it's possible to love a girl so much, and to go to bed with another, in many cases, especially when the loved girl is far away, when she don't want to have sex with him, when the other girl is very sexy and made things to make the guy terribly horny, u see.....
2006-10-20 02:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by curious girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible. Single guys and single women look at sex generally differently. Women have more of an emotional attachment - men just need to be aroused!
If you plan to do this - be prepared for the girlfriend to dump you - becuase she will!
2006-10-20 02:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible,but i think he is lying,just to make that mail friend to feel jolouse.and i think the reason may be she may be irritated him.proof is any boy doesnt tell like this when he loves a girl and also doest make sex with another girl.just he loves her very much.belive me i am sure
2006-10-20 02:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by chetananand u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either choose one girl or the other. If you really want a girlfriend then stay with one not two.
2006-10-20 02:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my bf cheated on me i would prob forgive him cuz i care about him as a person but i would leave him, if he loves u he wont cheat on u no matter wut, his love for u should over power the temptation with another girl,its prob cuz the long distance thing too.
2006-10-20 03:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is possible lol. not only he maybe she can do as u say
2006-10-20 02:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by exsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋