he is coming over for dinner tonight, have had a few intimate encounters over the past month with him, i know he wants to take it further......is he using me, or does he like me......? should i put out, or wait and see if he sticks around before going further?.....oh help at 33 i should know what to do, but am clueless singleton.....
2006-10-20 01:59:30 · 23 answers · asked by kt_sub2000 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the end of the day you're both adults - don't plan it, just go with the flow. I know what I would do, especially after waiting a month - I'd go for it BIG time, life's too short - but then that's just me. If you don't feel right don't do it.
2006-10-20 02:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on every individual, how much you like him and the vibe of how much he likes you too, i'm gathering if you're 33 that hes generally around the same age group and as he's coming round for dinner i'd say he's not just in it for the sex.... i'd say wait and see how the night progresses try not think about it too much and do what you feel is right at the time. x
2006-10-20 09:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simple fact is you are a lady and you always have the power of 'no'.
If you dont KNOW whether you should put out then the answer is no. When you do know, then you will know whether its a yes or not
You are under no pressure and if he tries to put the pressure on then show him the door. Do things when you are really ready and you wont regret them later.
2006-10-20 09:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, if he likes you he'll respect you for wanting to wait a little while longer, if he is using he will either get mad or try to sweet talk you into going further.
2006-10-20 09:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by dream_harts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU want to take it further? If yes, then 'put out'. I think that if you are 33, he may be somewhere around your age and typically men that age dont just stay long enough to get laid. Have Fun!
2006-10-20 09:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may want an actually relationship with you. so wait. if you like or enjoy the meal, ask him to come round again later on in the week. date him a few times. if he just in it to use. he will not wan't to know you and will just be looking for sex. if he asks for it! it usually means he's using you, which is dangerous. you don't even have to have him round for diner.
2006-10-21 07:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start off all relaxed enjoy dinner then if you feel like it after go for it if not don't
Most of all enjoy yourself either way
2006-10-20 09:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl should make him wait for it .and if he is just there for that then he raelly do cear .and as soon as u put out he will tell ever one.believe mei'v been there and we all make mistakes and learn from them but i wish i had some one to tell me wat i'm telling u .so yah make him wate and if he live's he is not worth it and u should find some one els'.i'm here for u if u ever need to talk ro advice good luck.
2006-10-20 09:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Geneva D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see how your getting on over dinner and what your gut feeling is, because your gut feeling is usually right only sometimes we don't follow it. i hope he turns out to be a nice guy and you get what you want.
good luck
2006-10-20 09:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are comfy in his company then go with the flow if you plan something it don't always go right! so i would say wait til you yourself are ready to put out. only you know.
2006-10-20 09:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by pussycatwinnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋