My best friend's b/f had left her & after 2 yrs he has come back to her asking for forgiveness& convincing her to come back in his life. what should she do?
2006-10-20 01:58:59 · 24 answers · asked by nutan_nutty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion she should not care somebody that it takes a person 2 years to come back and ask for forgiveness,i understand that he accepted his mistake but it was too long.A person who is in love can understand what each day means.And this person has taken 2 years to felt his love for you, he must be a selfish person and there is something wrong going on his mind,i suggest you to be brave and express your feelings in such a way that he should be guilty and should never play with the emotions of other girls.Take care good bye......
2006-10-20 02:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by satish k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends.. But I wont advice her to say immediately yes if she do loves him.. Just test him and ask him for the reason of leaving. If she do loved him and forgave him that easily, there is no garantee of him he can leave again and again. So better let him suffer a while.. If he really loved her He would never stop convincing her. And if he did.. Than tell her to forget him and step forward in her life..
2006-10-20 02:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sensitvie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive him, but wait a while to see if he is sincere, before
getting into a serious relationship with him. Give it about 6 months to a year. This will be enough time to evaluate his motives and intentions.
2006-10-20 02:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out the reason why he left her and the reason for him to come back to her if these reasons are both genuine and acceptable then she can Carry on but since he left her before there is no guarantee that he won't leave her again
2006-10-20 20:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody deserves a second chance. If your best friend has still the sparks for him, then she should allow him back into her life. So there will be no regrets later on.
2006-10-20 02:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell a true and respectable reason for his action. Did he ask her to wait for him before leaving her or without any reason, he left abruptly? If abrupt my suggestion is to avoid him for life time is good for your friend.
2006-10-20 03:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kanna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your own choice, if you have still interest in him, come forgive,
LOVE IS TO FORGIVE.
2006-10-20 02:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing and ignore that unreliable fellow.
It is not correct to accept such a careless man.
2006-10-20 20:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no, coz his intensions might be bad.
If you think he is good, then he might be in some trouble and any other problems which make him left. Find out things and go ahead...
I think u should more careful this time....
2006-10-20 18:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Amrut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves him and he treated her good while they were together, she should give him another chance. Maybe he just need some time to really figure out what he needed and wanted.
2006-10-20 02:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋