My last boyfriend of two and a half years hurt me really bad. Most of my other boyfriends didn't last more than 4 months, but I was with him for over 2 years, we lived together I made a lot of sacrifices so we could move in together. I gave my little kitty cat to my sister, which ran away =(, I felt horrible, but we couldn't find an apartment that would allow animals. I feel horrible now. He has done some messed up things, I didn't find out his true colors until we moved in together, but even then I still tried. Will I ever get fully over him? Are cats the only ones really true to you? I am so mad, and sad. I made bad choices with him, why do I still have feelings when I know he isn't a good person? I am so mad I want to slash his tires, or make him cry like I have been but I wont because I am not immature enough I am just so upset and I don't know what to do. Why don't some guys appreciate someone who loves them so much? I know not all guys bad, but all the good guys r taken
2006-10-20 01:46:19 · 10 answers · asked by Star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The plus side if there is a plus side, is that after going through what you went through...you come out the other side more aware, and with experience, and really knowing yourself better....but having said that i believe you should now change the bait you been using so to speak, and don't try so hard, love will find you... 9 times out of 10, especially when you are not looking....when it does find you...hope that you are ready for it, and not putting all of that old baggage in the way...if the old baggage does get in the way, even if it's the love of your life that finds you...it still wont work...so be careful, and work on yourself first, and learn to love yourself, and not take yourself too serious.
2006-10-20 02:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
True love is not something you go looking for and find.True love does infact exist and it will hapen to you when you least expect it.When someone you really care about hurts you it takes a long time for the heart to heal.You said you made a lot of sacrifices so you two could be together did he not sacrifice anything?That should of been a clue!!A relationship is not all give or take you both have to sacrifice together.Good luck on lifes adventure.
2006-10-20 02:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Topper B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know I've been where you are at. I dated a man that I gave my all to. There was nothing I wouldn't do for him and he still hurt me in the end. I think it's just a part of life. We have bad relationships so that when we do find the right man we can tell the difference between the two. I thought I would never find someone to truly love me for me but just when I stopped looking he was there. Give yourself time to heal. Keep busy and just when you least expect it the man of your dreams will be standing there arms wide open ready to embrace you. Don't give up on love just be patient.
2006-10-20 01:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by shortandsexxy040182 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all You did every thing to keep him with you you loved him he never did. You were the one making sacrifices. He never did. Now The way is to realise the mistake you made with him and FORGIVE him completely. It is your life if you want to be mad no one can stop that But you owe it to yourself to make changes You have done so before by giving your cat away. You will have to make even a bigger change now because you have the experience. Go for it and be happy
2006-10-20 01:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say, but even the ones that look like good guys also have some strange behavior that would drive someone else crazy. I guess the secrete is to find someone who only drives you mildly crazy, because if your looking the perfect guy, you will end up a lonely lady.
Do not give up, refine your search. Good luck.
2006-10-20 01:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had to go throught all that .. :(
Its obvious u loved him real bad ..
But you have to move on with your life ..He's not worth it ..You can't him cry or suffer ..the biggest revenge you do to him is ..to forget him ..to be happy with your life ..to go out have fun ..see new faces ..
Good Luck I hope you find the true love ..the real one ;)
2006-10-20 01:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not you just have to look hard for them and don't worry someday when you least expected it the right one will comes along, just be patient and stop making the wrong choices and be careful there are a lot of them who are dogs, bad dogs!
2006-10-20 01:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will find true love eventually. It takes a long time sometimes. Hand in there.
2006-10-20 01:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true love is there and it will sneak up on you when you least expect it and not even looking
you also need to renew your love all the time
keep on falling in love with your partner
2006-10-20 02:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and I believe in destiny and soulmates.. it takes time to find a true love, oww sori we do not find love it eventually come to us and make us happy :)
2006-10-20 01:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by zxrylle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋