ugh...relationships?

Question

I need advice...My boyfriends ex girlfriend recently just started calling him again. And when I ask if she's called he'll say no, but then I'll see it in his phone. He doesnt answer it (at least while he's with me ) And when I try to ask him why shes calling, he freaks out! hes like "I DONT KNOW, I DONT CALL HER BACK"...should I just let it go? and also is it understandable that I get upset when he hangs out with his bestfriend that is a complete player? I hate him, and the fact that I hate his girlfriend...ugh this situation sucks..help

Answer 1

Stamp Yourself on this Relationship(If you are Serious about it!!), and Call this Girl and Lay it on the Line!
tell her Straight she it messing with YOUR Guy!, and he is Seeing You!!

Answer 2

I know what you mean about the best friend thing. My boyfriend of 4 years has a mate who is only after all the women he can get. My boyfriend can't understand why I'm not too keen when he he goes out with him. I do trust him, it's just the fact that when his mate pulls, the girl is never on her own so the left over girls end up trying to chat him up! I guess it's just me being stupid because I know he wouldn't do anything, it just makes you feel like going... OI! HE'S MINE! (If I was actually there when they went out together!). You say you've looked in his phone and seen that she's phoned him, I wouldn't normally suggest this but if you're snooping in his phone anyway, you may as well try and see if he's actually had phone calls with her! At least you know if he's lying then. How about suggesting a change of number? If it really annoys him that she's ringing he probably won't mind. Don't take this as a definate answer though because changing your number can be a hastle. It's hard to let these things go and he could be totally innocent in this so don't just to conclusions, just see how it goes and if she keeps ringing, sit down and have an adult chat about it. Good luck! By the way, ignore all the ones who say dump him, they're obviously to young to know that a serious relationship isn't that easy!

Answer 3

Well you know theres two ways this situation works, one is the short answer hes trying to get back with his ex, the other though is a little more complicated. When you date somebody, I dont care who it is they have a positive or negative impact on your life, I dont care who it is! There's always one point in your life you can sit down and say oh remember so and so and when this happened. Whether or not it is positive or negative is how you take it. This girl could have had a positive influence on his life and deep down people that do we care about. My best friend is probably one of the players of ALL players but I do not let his decision making impact my life, he does what he wants and iam still me at the end of the day. The question is how secure are you about yourself? The big problem with this is hes going to lie to you even if they are friends and you made it worse by honestly dont take this into offense but being a stereotypical *** by looking into his phone, that would make me mad, and you know it would make you mad. You need to talk to him and put this and everything your feeling on the line, if she means so much to him MEET HER, instead of bashing whats going on. You have a blank page but it is going to write itself out very quickly which you will not like, just try and do your best if you care.

Answer 4

First off, NONONONONO, their is no reason an ex should be calling!!!You are a woman, why would you call a guy?????Don't be stupid!!!!!!!!!!She wants what she had, and will continue until you or he stops it. If he doesn't stand up to her and tell her QUIT calling me, Im happy with my girlfriend, then you need to stand up for yourself, so you are letting them both know that you are not going out like no FOOL!!!!!!!!! He should have no reason to lie to you, especially if he is happy. He should be honest with you, and say hey, she called again. NOT LIE OR GET MAD!!!!! I think it is understandable that you don't like his friend, but, when you got with him, were they not bestfriends? which means without you probably realizing it they were two peas in a pod. One learns from the other. All friends are like that. Maybe it isn't the friend you should be mad at. maybe it's your man. ONCE A PLAYER ALWAYS A PLAYER HONEY...UNFORTUNATELY, YOU MAY BE LEARNING THE HARD WAY AND I HATE THAT FOR YOU. I HAVE BEEN AROUND THE BLOCK A LONG TIME, AND YOU CAN'T BULL SH**T THE BULL. YOU ARE GOING TO GET HURT IF YOU DON'T TAKE A STAND, AND ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SOME PRIDE AND RESPECT, AND DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.. .......DO YOU THINK HE WOULD LET YOUR EX MAN CALL?????????WHATEVER, ........DO WHAT IS IN YOUR HEART. IF HE GETS MAD....CHALK IT AS A LOSS AND GO ON....YOU NEED SOMEONE TO STAND UP FOR YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP, NOT ADD DRAMA FROM SOMEONE WHO COULDN'T HOLD ON TO WHAT SHE HAD, AND CAN'T FIND ANYTHING ELSE BETTER TO DO THAN MESS WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S MAN.
BUT DON'T BE MAD AT JUST HER, IT TAKES TWO TO TALK, AND IF HE NEVER STANDS UP TO HER, SHE WILL KEEP CALLING, AND EVENTUALLY, YOU WILL BE ALONE,


TAKE MY ADVICE, FROM A PLAYER TO A SWEET PERSON, SPEAK UP NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK,
DAPHNE

Answer 5

OMG WE ARE GOING THOUGH THE SAME THING my bf's ex has been calling him on his work phone at home his friends tell me about it and every times i ask him when was the last time she tried to get a hold of him he says its been awhile. but u have a great reason to get pissed if i were u i would find that B I T C H and kick her a s s... my bf's going out with his guy friends tonight and i know that he's going to be flirting with girls but what can i say????

Answer 6

Why put yourself through the drama? I'm sure you care about your boyfriend but when they (men) start acting naive about situations such as this and not doing anything about what's hurting you, that's when you need to either give him an ultimatum and if he doesn't except it, let him go. There are plenty of other good men out there!

Answer 7

Sounds like you need a change in boyfriends. Don't be played for a fool!

Answer 8

Hes still porking her girl ,just join in and enloy