I need advice...My boyfriends ex girlfriend recently just started calling him again. And when I ask if she's called he'll say no, but then I'll see it in his phone. He doesnt answer it (at least while he's with me ) And when I try to ask him why shes calling, he freaks out! hes like "I DONT KNOW, I DONT CALL HER BACK"...should I just let it go? and also is it understandable that I get upset when he hangs out with his bestfriend that is a complete player? I hate him, and the fact that I hate his girlfriend...ugh this situation sucks..help
2006-10-20 01:44:06 · 8 answers · asked by RANDI B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't be jealous. Please don't assume anything unless there is a reason for suspicion.Just because she called him, doesn't mean he talked to her. If you catch him lying to you, then get suspicious. He does seem to overreact to the question though ???? I can't advise beyond that.Good luck !!
2006-10-20 01:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by rock d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, we've established that he's lying to you because he said she doesnt call, yet you see the number in his phone. If he lies about something so small, there's no telling what else he will lie about. Now, if you decide to stay with him, then I dont think you should come between his relationship with his friend. I have girlfriends that are unfaithful, however it doesnt stop me from being faithful. My husband has friends that are playas as well, but I'm not worried about them. You are never going to like all of your boyfriends friends and you probably will hate all of their girlfriends, but you need to decide whats best for you. If you still think you can trust him, then be with him, but tell him that he needs to tell him to stop talking to her and have him do it while you're there.
2006-10-20 08:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing i have noticed here...is that there is no trust....you don't trust him...if there's no trust there's no relationship period. Seems like you are winding yourself up into a frenzy!...if you have respect for yourself don't allow him to make you feel paranoid, and helpless, because that's why you are acting this way....is it really worth the stress all of this is causing you?...if i were you i think i would walk.
2006-10-20 09:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is lying about her calling him. He can't help it if she calls him, but he has the choice to not talk to her. Your security within this relationship feels threatened. That explains your feelings. If he keeps lying, let him go... as for his "player" friend, if your boy acts like his friend when they are together...let him go...
2006-10-20 08:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to be that jealous and inconciderate that he had friends that came before you then you shouldnt be dating.you should be alone, with lots and lots of cats. hes eventually going to get tired of it. you arent helping the situation. just let it go. if he wants to be with you then he will but if he doesnt then he wont. simple as that.
2006-10-20 08:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stamp Yourself on this Relationship(If you are Serious about it!!), and Call this Girl and Lay it on the Line!
tell her Straight she it messing with YOUR Guy!, and he is Seeing You!!
2006-10-20 08:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say call the ex girlfriend and tell her to stop callin your man!!
2006-10-20 08:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by misspinkdiamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think this guy is for you. look around for someone else
2006-10-20 08:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋