2006-10-20 01:40:34 · 20 answers · asked by hayley m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you tell him that y7ou want to have sex with him ,then during sex you erupt like old faithful,but more often
2006-10-20 02:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that thinks sex is the selling point of being with you, isnt going to treat you well, and theyre not worth your time.
One way to get a man, that has always worked for me, is to be ok with not having one. Confidance is key, hands down everytime. Dont worry about what you should and shouldnt do, be confidant that youre lovable. If youre not, than no amount of blow jobs will keep or get a man.
People need to learn that you dont have to be in a relationship to be happy, you have to be confidant to be happy. If youre not, every relationship you have will fail, you'll self sabotage the ones you have, and you will always wonder whats going on.
If you want to be in any relationship, as a woman with a man, with a woman, a man with a woman, or a man, you have to keep yourself happy.
Happy people make good lovers, and good partners. Fixating on making everyone else happy, is usually a ploy used by people who cant make themselves happy.
How do you want to be kept happy? What do you want, need? Feel? Hope for? Figure that out, and then the men will come to you.
I promise.
2006-10-20 08:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what kind of a man you want...I'm really not sure what attracts me to women, so I'll focus on the "keeping" part.
If you want a decent man then the key things to keep him are love and affection, loyalty, trust (and good sex always helps, though if you have a really decent man he'll want to take things slow). Good food is also good..especially if you find out what his favorite type is. Once you get a decent guy, it shouldn't be hard to keep him as long as there's communication between you about what each of you wants and needs, and neither of you starts taking the other for granted.
If you want a man who's more interested in your body than your mind, it's easier to find and get them, but harder to keep them. I'm guessing you don't want this kind of "man" so I won't give tips other than "good sex."
2006-10-20 08:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Tinkerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break through the emotional barriers quickly that many men have and then just loving and fun.
To get men, well some men in the pub are often different in front of their mates on a night out, if you can segregate the one you like you'll get to know the real bloke. Divide and conquer
2006-10-20 08:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by madnesscon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship is knowing your partners likes and dislikes. The problem with a lot of relationships are you tried so hard to make your partner happy that you are miserable. Falling in love is easy, staying in love takes two people working together. I wish you the best, just remember you need to be happy to.
2006-10-20 08:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Fangs_4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be approachable,and have a good sense of humour,and when you get a man,just be yourself,honest,and willing to compromise,as no matter how much you have in common,there's always different things that you like,so give each other space sometimes,and make the most of when you are together.
2006-10-20 08:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by duracell18 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know for me that its not good sex, that doesnt attract me to a girl like most people think it would. Its nice that will be a component in your relationship, but iam looking for someone that can have fun, but not just that either. It depends on what point in your life you are in I think. At my point iam already ready to just relax and settle down with somebody that I can just be with and relate too. Someone that will be there for me through my problems and I can be there through theirs. There is so many components in a relationship when your talking to different people. I guess I would be the stereotypical hopeless romantic but hey what are you going to do?
2006-10-20 08:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man with similar interests and become involved thru this function. After a while you will know if it is mutual . Many variables here. Your age . ever been married. have kids. common interests. uncommon interests. flexibility from each other. education level proffesional or blue collar.
2006-10-20 08:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jon B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not freak out when he goes hang out with friends when may-be 1 or 2 of the friends in that crowd is a woman. That crap annoys the hell outta me.
2006-10-20 08:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by Fitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep him happy by showing respect, by treating him very well. Honesty is the best policy.
2006-10-20 08:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to learn to be a great cook. Love him and be great in bed. Help him and be there for him. He will fall head over heels for you
2006-10-20 08:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋