my bf have been together for 5 months. In the past month he hasnt really been calling me and i have always been the one to call him. Even in the beginning he wasn't really calling me or if we talked it was for 2 min and i had a lot of defenses so sometimes i wouldn't pick up the phone which really annoyed him- i guess i played hard to get. When we are together it is awesome i feel so comfortable with him and like we are really together. I am very insecure because of past relationships -always been used and cheated on. He has a lot on his plate his mom is on drugs and his sister is mental. He supports them both financially and emotionally. Recently i had an abortion-and he came over two days ago and we talked how we both weren't ready and i said so u would never want a baby with me...he is like not until we get married. IDK wat to think of my relationship...when we r together i feel like we r really there but when he doesnt call me i feel like he doesnt love me...
2006-10-20 01:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by mariapican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friends told me well if he had never called u or talked to u in the beg of relationship- than u would have hated him. Also when i was pregnant he was really concerned about what my mom thought -and called her and apologized to her- saying we both werent ready to support a child. Every time i ask him bout relationship- he is like im not a phone person and y do u always think we r gonna break up- it annoys him. Also two days ago after i txt messaged him to come over and he came over suprisingly threw stones at my window. He is scared i think as well cuz he thinks i hide calls from him- i did that once and it was my best guy friend and i didn't tell my bf at that time bcz i knew he would say you and him be in a relationship. IDK wat to do. I really love him- should i call him more often- i mean he does call me back but i just dont want to feel like im wanted 2.
2006-10-20 01:43:54 · update #1
i think some people are not attached as we would like
it doesnt mean he doesnt like you..maybe is his way to face a relationship
why dont you just check how is he with his frieds or mom?
maybe you expect too much and he is not able to do what you want
if you love him try to tolerate this cause he has a lot to think about ...
good luck!
2006-10-20 01:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he just has too much to deal with at home and when he talks to you it adds to the stress. He might feel like he can't give you his "all" so he doesn't give anything. Just give him his time and space.
2006-10-20 08:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guy has a lot on his plate...a man doesn't have to be with you every second of every day to love you....sounds to me like if you are happy when you are together you should cherish that
2006-10-20 08:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be comprehensive..
He's having a hard time..
2006-10-20 08:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax give him some room
2006-10-20 08:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋