if women are meant to cover themselves with hijabs and niqabs, are their parents are meant to find them the right partner ?
what would u do if u fancy a guy ?
2006-10-20 01:00:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes my parents had a Love Marraige, and they still are in love with each other. and they were not cousins but strangers. their marraige is a huge sucess and they bore 2 kids -- my younger sibling and me.
In Islam Love marraiges are valid and allowed if the 2 people maintain respect and space in the relationship until marraige. also our prophet allowed the 2 people -- in marraige -- to see each other in presence of mehram so that they BOTH approve of further procedures. also on day of wedding the Preists will ask the Bride first whether she accepts it or not -- 3 times followed by the groom. this is done so that the girl will NOT be under pressure from groom's answer.
2006-10-20 01:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by marissa 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
These days parents are happy for their children to find there own partners, the only thing is that the children should refrain from any sexual relations until the marriage has taken place. I know lots of people who have found their own partners and are in love and very happy.
It should be noted that the arranged marriage does not have any religious roots, it comes from cultural ones. Personally, i think I will find my own partner but if that fails I can always get an arranged marriage which I would be happy with. Couples who met trough the arranged marriage route would also love each other over time, but obviously not from day one. Finally, both the guy and gal must accept the other partner, no one should be forced to marry someone they dont like.
2006-10-20 02:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Slug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you be happy if a man loved you for the sexy picture you are using here without considering your mind and sole. Hijab of Muslim women tell the man look at the human part of me not to the physical part. So, simply love marriage is so common and sincere in Islam because it is based mainly on what will not change with time i.e. personality not on beauty only.
2006-10-22 20:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by haggobti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What stupid question - of course there is. The wearing of veils is an act that comes AFTER the marriage. Some suggest this is done not to tempt other men, others say it is a mark of faith.
Arrange marriages happen not from force but peer presure. There is the option to say no but most don't for the sake of their family.
Have you ever seen a child wearing a full lenght hijab?
2006-10-20 01:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages tend to last longer then when you let the men and women pick their own spouse. I'd say arranged marriages are better. I married my husband because I loved him. We didn't have an arranged marriage and his parents accept me as their daughter in law even though I'm white and American. My mother in law views me as her daughter Alhamdulillah. Studies have been done showing that people in love marriages are twice as likely to get divorced in the first year of marriage then people who are in arranged marriages.
2016-05-22 04:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in islam you fall in love after wedding
if u fancy someone u talk to ur parents
nowadays parents are understanding especially if the the guy is from ur own community
2006-10-20 01:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by avonlady 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Islam has given the right to both when choosing a spouse but they should not disobey their Parents either.
2006-10-20 01:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by ajmal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there are.
no, either the girl/boy can ask their parents to find a match for them or they can propose someone they fancy and the parents do the rest.
if a girl fancies a guy, she can ask her parents or her brothers to talk to the guy to see if he's available for marriage. if he is, then they get married. simple.
if they know each other from school/college/neighbourhood, then the task is easier. they just get married.
2006-10-20 01:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Love? Half the time they've never even HEARD of each other let alone met, spoken or had any other social meeting, so if love ever comes it's as much by luck as judgement, and like the marriage itself, pot luck.
2006-10-20 01:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it happens, they're becoming more common now, but usually people still ask their parents for permission to marry the person of their choice.
2006-10-20 01:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by F R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋