I am a 24 yr old female who is happily in a relationship with a wonderful man. However sometimes when I go out I meet other men - sometimes its just a kiss, other times more.... I have no intention of leaving my boyfriend and we have a good relationship. Am I doing anything wrong...?
2006-10-20 00:54:47 · 46 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is wrong, and by asking the question then you know it is. A kiss with another person is bad enough...but more. You must be very insecure with your self because you are going out and getting other mens 'approval' in who you are by doing what you are doing. If your man is that wonderful then why are risking it all? and potentially breaking his heart??
Ask yourself why you are doing this. Is it because you are drinking too much?? Be very careful one day one of these nobodies that you are getting with could really hurt you or you could be seen and it will get back to your boyfriend. People do not like cheats and liars, your friends will only stand back and say nothing for so long.. Just be careful babe and have more respect for yourself and your man x
2006-10-20 01:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on whether or not you have made a commitment to the man you are in a relationship with.
Basically, though.....as a rule of thumb...if you are deceiving anyone....in any way.....it is wrong.
It's best to tell anyone you are in a relationship what your intentions are......whether you plan to see other people, or not. Especially, if you are being sexual with others.
Take some advice from an old chick...lol Be straight up....don't play games.....never settle.....and be honest. Good luck!
2006-10-20 01:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking then you must feel guilty and it is wrong. If you love your boyfriend and have such a great relationship then why would you even meet with other men and why would you kiss them. How would you feel if he was doing this to you. Then would it be wrong? If he is wonderful then he doesn't deserve to be treated that way. I would let him go.
2006-10-20 01:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by yrunosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can only be answered between the two of you. Most of the time, yes you are. But it depends on how he feels about it, and on the state of the mental health of each of you. If either of you is not confident, happy and secure in themselves, it's probably not right.
The idea of "consenting adults" is OK but you need to set a very high standard of "consent" in a case like this.
2006-10-20 01:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by wild_eep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you need us to answer this?You are despicable,low and very naive.Set this guy free,he can do better than you.Once a cheat always a cheat,you people are all the same,me me and me again,you think of no one and nothing but your own self-gratification.Let the guy go,buy yourself a bigger mattress to strap on your back and continue to be a minger for the rest of your life you miserable piece of bathscum.I sincerely hope your soon to be ex b/f finds the peace and happiness he so richly deserves.
2006-10-22 03:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy in your relationship with your boyfriend then why you let other man kiss you and more? theres no such just a kiss its the respect you have to think with your boyfriend. you have to made out your mind what your doing is wrong and its not healthy on any relationship. take care..
2006-10-20 01:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by whitetiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not fit to be in a propper relationship, and I thinks it's less than fair on your boyfriend.
Have best of both worlds eh?! Your attitude sucks.
Split with your boyfriend or at least be honest with him and let him make the decision whether he wants to stay with a cheat like you.
2006-10-20 01:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by nicoled2408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are obviously underlying problems in ur relationship which u r not letting urself admit to..... if the relationship was so perfect and ur partner so perfect then u wouldnt be looking elsewhere.
if i were u i'd nip this in the bud right now if u want to keep ur guy. otherwise let him go - without hurting him - and let him find someone who will give him 100% committment and let him have the relationship he deserves and not be with someone who doesnt seem to give a damn about his feelings.
2006-10-20 01:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a BIT CH! Your boyfriend should leave you! If you have any feelings for him whatsoever you wouldnt do something like this to him! Let him go and find some one that will treat him right!
2006-10-20 01:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your wonderful man know the two of you are not exclusive? He should be aware that you are seeing others especially if your having unprotected sex with them and him. Otherwise no your not doing anything wrong as long as all parties know the rules.
2006-10-20 00:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋