I trusted him so much till a time he started behaving fun. answer call outside for 2hrs. i decided to find out what was going on cos any time i ask him he puts an atititude . i didnt want to be taken unwares one day i decide to go thru his things and guess what i found , another girls pictures. i told him what i saw and since then he held it as a crime against me . Tell me all ,was i meanrt to fold my hands and watch? Was i wrong? men your honest opinion is required? females too.
2006-10-20 00:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by chillpep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him now before you get too involved. This guy is bad news!! He is probably two-timing!!! You already caught him so what are you waiting for?
2006-10-20 00:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with a picture?
I was very immature of you to look through his stuff with out his consent you have losed some of his trust forever bad move! if you want him you should never doing it again and begg for his forgiveness, seriously you not only showed him you are sneaky but you silently told him you don't think he is able to be trusted if he wasn't think about looking for another girl now he may consider it The way to love a man is to respect him this my friend (meaning what you did) was the ultimate sign of disrespect
Two wrongs don't make things right!
Cheating on a good girl leaves guilt
Cheating on a "bad" girl leaves room for justification
Never give anyone reasons to .......
2006-10-20 07:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong, thats his stuff and you disrspect his privacy. you should have just ask him or if you really believe that he is into something just breakout with him and find yourself another relationship...i am of the opinion that from now on your relationship will go downhill.. i'm very sorry it should'nt have been your fault but you gave him the advantage by what you did, if it will help the situation i think your bf is a cheat anyway.
2006-10-20 07:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never go through someone elses things. If you feel you need to, why be with that person? Trust should be, but sadly isnt, the #1 ingredient in a relationship.
2006-10-20 07:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it was not wrong as you said "he started behaving funny and answering the phone outside for 2 hours". it's time for you to move on,
2006-10-20 07:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity Killed the CAT------and your curiousity has probably killed your relationship.
You were wrong. What this guy has in his possession are his ....and clearly none of your business----If he wanted to share information or anything in his personal possession then he would've done that.
You are clearly immature and contolling...Your boyfriend really needs to rethink your boyfriend / girlfriend relationship and dump you today!
2006-10-20 07:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done right to protect your self respect , now do not believe him and find another friend .Good luck .
2006-10-20 07:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i must say if you have reason to doubt, it's okay to do some investigation i guess. but don't overdo it cuz you still have to respect his privacy. you just have to do what you must to find the answer to what bugs you.
2006-10-20 07:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on...your dealing with a looser.
2006-10-20 07:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how would you like if he went through your stuff
2006-10-20 07:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋