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2006-10-20 00:19:49 · 19 answers · asked by rAvE aZTiG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, if you truly love someone and you wan't nothing but the same in return, why not ask? but if the answer is not what you were looking for then you must realize 2 things, it's better to know the truth so you can move on, and you asked- or rather stated- that you wanted to know so you can't really blame someone if the answer is no... best of luck
2006-10-20 00:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds like you're begging and feeling very needy whhich isn't wrong but certainly isn't a sign of a healthy relationship. Neediness is very off putting and draining - I know as I had a needy ex! It's fine to say you love someone but you can't make someone love you, or say things the way you want them too, as that's more about getting your needs met than it is about loving someone. Love is about loving someone for who they are and respecting their free will.
2006-10-20 07:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! YES! YES! Why would you want to beg for someones love? That should come naturally if the feelings are there. Just because you love someone doesn't mean that you will ever receive their love in return. Just remember that sex is not the same as love.
2006-10-20 09:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't force any1 to love u......but still i dont find anything wrong in that statement...but u must know the heart of the person u're going to say dis!
Cheers!
2006-10-20 07:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you seeking which is not freely given?
No its not wrong but it makes one sound weak and needy you or whoever is stronger than that!
Dont let someone squish you or your pride cos theyll walk all over you permanently!
2006-10-20 07:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kate Sexy Legs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It sounds desperate and pathetic and boxes her into a corner. Go ahead and say it but know that she may lie to protect your feelings and you'll just get hurt worse in the end.
2006-10-20 07:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, it's not. That is letting someone know you hope they love you...as much as you love them. We all need love ...earlier in my relationship, when we had a fight, i would tell him that I loved him...and always said...."please love me too" ...and he does
2006-10-20 07:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not at all, this is a free country we're living in. not that i would say that to anyone. but if you do say that, be prepared to hear the words : "im sorry i can't"
2006-10-20 07:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by shang1253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force anybody to love you..and you can't beg for love too ..Love comes spontaneously..
This way you will look pathetic..If you want someone to love you ..try to show your feelings to him/her ..without being that direct..this attitude scaries..try to be more discret..
This attitude will never make anyone love u..It will make them feel pity for u ..and u don't want that ..!!
2006-10-20 07:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong if you realy love the person and you want same reciprocity. you are just being honest, just don't be demanding!
2006-10-20 07:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋