whenever i meet new guys they initially are attracted to me and we start hanging out and we end up doing "stuff" with eachother, and they act all cute like they want to be together for the first couple weeks and then after a while they just say "you're too cool of a girl i don't want to ruin anything" what the hell is this all about guys? i mean it's not like i give it up to em so it's not like they got what they wanted and now they just wanna chill... What's with this f*ckin behavior with the dudes? (may i repeat i do NOT sleep with any of these guys that i hang out with)
2006-10-20 00:08:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they work out that you're just a tease.
2006-10-20 00:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try being more feminine and i don't mean in a silly way of a blonde in a holywood movie. Act comfortable, but not just like a guy. It's the different thing that they are looking for. If they wanted us to be like guys they'd all be gay. And don't think it always has to do with sex. If you don't want to have sex right away and they don't respect it then just don't care about them any more. I had the same problem you mention. I was always in the friend group right away. After the first few weeks it was suddenly too friendly to be a couple. In the end it only changed when i took a bit better care of my looks and my attitude, stopped being too opinionated and let some insidents go by without making comments about them. Oh and smiled a lot!
2006-10-20 07:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U r one hell of a beauty.believe me ! I wish i could hang around with u...atleast wish.Ur so cute n gordious n i guess when u smile ...possibly if i happen to see u smile i will faint thrice.
Hey,seriously.. may i have your email id or something please,I am not flirting with u..infact i dont like to..U look innocent n strong at the same time..the point is if 100 guys u tell u that ur beautiful they are telling the truth..but it all matters how do u actually react back to them, thats importent.Bye mmmuah
2006-10-20 07:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by nirupam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know sometimes to much in common don't work.Maybe a change in the kind of guys you like is in order.It would be unfair to ask you to be different,but try to find someone who does not share y9ur same interest and maybe they will appreciate who you are.
2006-10-20 07:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by ga44male 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats exactly why.. because you are not a sex object to them. I assume you let the boys be boys around you? ..Like boozing, talking dirty, farting, etc? Guys like girls like that to be their friends.
2006-10-20 07:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you act too much like them(men)..they see in you a friend..
try to be more feminine..
2006-10-20 07:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well there's you answer, because you're not sleeping with them!
2006-10-20 07:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe they just want to have you in their fantasies
2006-10-20 08:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sleeping with them
2006-10-20 07:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you answered your own question. give it up or suffer the consequences
2006-10-20 07:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋