I HAD A FRIEND FOR 4 YEARS, AND WE LIKED EACHOTHER. WE WERE RECENTLY DATING AND I WAS ON THE PHONE WITH HER N I ASKED WHERE SHE WAS N SHE SAID L.A W/ HER FAM. I WAS LIKE IGHT I CALL BACK THE NEXT DAY AND HER SISTER ANSWERS N I ASKED WHERE THEY WERE N SHE SAID OREGAN?? I WAS LIKE WTF, BUT WHAT REALLY TRIPPED ME OUT WAS THAT HER SISTER SAID THEY BEEN THERE 4 3 DAYS. I LEFT HER N STILL HAVENT TALKED TO HER BUT I STILL LIKE HER, ALSO IN OREGON SHE HAD HER 1ST LOVE BUT SUPPOSEDELY SHE HATES HIM BUT THAT TRIPPED ME OUT SO CAN U PLZ GIMME IDEAS OF Y SHE DID THAT?
2006-10-19 23:49:29 · 28 answers · asked by smokes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she was afraid of loosing you by telling you something and just couldnt gather the courage to do so.if she liked u as much as you think she did then she is missing u to.call her up and tell her how u feel.if u hide it now u will regret later.find out why she behaved this way.give her a chance to explain.coz if you dont you will feel guilt whenever you think of her.she deserves a chance.it can be a simple misunderstanding or even a stupid joke.or it can confirm your worst fear.dont worry be strong and go ahead.its real odd behaviour but does happen.its either fear or guilt that makes her do such a thing.talk to her and give her a chance to explain then decide wat is right or wrong.good luck
2006-10-19 23:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-31 23:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer that question as only she herself can. So I suggest that you pick up that phone and ask her. She should have a logical explanation for it. Or why don't you go and see her that way you will be able to tell if she is really telling the truth. Best of luck amigo and if you should need any more advice check out my 360 or blog at annelize-sexylee600.blogspot.com ciao
2006-10-19 23:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes definately hiding something. Im sure she knows you know about the first love, and didnt want you being insecure about her being there. Deplending how long you guys have been dating, age, etc, there way be more or less to the story. But Lying is lying, and we lie to comver up the truth. You need to be respectful and ask her whats the deal so she wont need another reason to lie.
2006-10-19 23:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Brown Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to ya playa but she doesn't like you as much as you like her. First of all she is a liar. Unless her sister is playing around and fuggin up her game with ya. I'd ask her str8 out next time you talk to her. Just be straight forward. Tell her excactly what you said here and demand an answer that is truthful. Good luck.
2006-10-19 23:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know for sure if she saw this other man. Also, since you just started dating, she may not see you as someone who she is commited to presently. Unless you had an agreement, she's pretty much free to do as she likes. Also, it appears she is not being honest with you or maybe she just doesn't want you to know what she is feeling toward this other man. Who knows why she did it? You need to decide if, when she returns, whether you want to discuss where your relationship is going or if her lying to you is a dealbreaker.
2006-10-19 23:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhhmmmm.... i do tat sometimes but only to ppl whom i juz got to know. i don't feel secure tellin them my whereabouts.. but tis girl.. u knew her for 4 years... guess u don't know her well enuff.. u should haf asked her y she lie to u abt this.. see wat she got to say for herself...... or mabe she is scared tat u might think of sth negative if u know that she's in Oregan and tat's where her 1st love is.. After u left her, did she try to contact u? if she didn't then watever u r thinkin rite now muz be rite....
2006-10-20 00:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feared you would think she would see her ex. Or maybe she wanted to make her life seem more exciting by telling a lie. Ask her.
2006-10-19 23:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she knows you know about her first love and if you are the jealous type she knows you would think she was with her first love while she's just visiting her family, and she doesn't want you to get jealous. Just trust her she's probably not doing anything.
2006-10-20 00:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Southern Cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she lied about her where abouts,,,then there is a reason. I am sure you could find out more from her sister...but do you really want to know?
2006-10-19 23:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋