My boyfriend used to be really sweet, but for the last couple of days hes being really distant with me. he hardly even acknoledges im there. he sometimes says hi in the morning but thats it. i dont understand what i did wrong. i dont no if hes gonna dump me or if he just wants me to hug him or something. please help its very confusing!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 23:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by Melmo S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him about this situation and find out if he still have feelings for you. If not, nevermind, move on with life and there are so many guys out there.
2006-10-19 23:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't jump to any conclusions, just like there are a million things you can think of that would possiblely explain why he is doing this, there are a million reasons why it probably has nothing to do with "you" or something you did. I mean maybe he has had alot of home problems, or he just found out that he isn't doing so well in school, you really don't know if it's some sort of external reason that you can't see, that is outside your school atmosphere. So well honestly talk to him about it, and be very gentle and kind, see what he has to say, and if there is something going on, of course give him a hug and be there for him.
2006-10-20 06:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your bf is going through a tough time at the moment and I don't think that he will dump you. If you feel that he needs a hug then hug him. He will ask why and then tell him that you feel that he needs a hug. Ask him what's up and that he can talk to you. You are there for him whenever he needs you. Even if you just have to listen to him talk about things. Remember, you did nothing wrong. Guys got the tendency to shut people that they love out when they are going through a tough time. So talk to him and tell him that you are there to support and love him even when he shuts you out. Best of luck amigo
2006-10-20 06:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, the best thing you can do is TALK TO HIM. You can't expect the issue to resolve itself, so the best bet is to sit him down and calmly ask him what's the deal. Do not lose your temper and try not to cry, it might make him freak out and head for the door. Tell him how your feeling and then ask him to be honest. Good luck hun!
2006-10-20 06:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u love him? U only know it and none other can say whether u love him or not. In fact u also can't say because for saying so ur mind has to work but Love is not known by our mind but our heart. ask this question from urs heart and u will get ur answer.
If then also u didn't get it that WHAT IS LOVE....
Then try it to find by answering these questions..
What is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone,are we correct? Something to ponder upon.....
Is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest while you meet him or talk with him?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
Would you allow them to leave you , not because they want to but because they have to?
Then its love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with others.
Perhaps u got ur answer. Now If thereis love between u two then accept it.
2006-10-20 07:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear girl, are you blessed with the ability to speak or write, pleas do use it, to get the answer from him. Good luck
2006-10-20 06:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Zaki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may have found a new woman in his life now, dont bug him, give him space, wait and see.
2006-10-20 06:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just has something on his mind it mightend have anything to do with you do something nice for him and see what reaction you get if it continues you'll have to talk to him
2006-10-20 06:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about this, try 2 talk 2 him !!
2006-10-20 06:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up and hug him and if he pushes u away then move on
2006-10-20 06:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋